Who cheats more? Men or Women

Philippines
June 21, 2009 7:24am CST
What do you think guys? Base on your experiences, and from some people you know, who do you think that cheats more? Men or Women? And what do you think are the causes why they cheat in their partner? Can these be prevented? Okay! Sisters, Men! Speak up!
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10 responses
@bingchen (1126)
• China
23 Jun 09
i have never seperate this quetion beteen men and women, i met them every day,nobody can open with me as clear as possble. speaking with them,i found that i often notice what he mean with his talking,whether i suspect how is true,i feel that it is very tire to work with these people.base on my experience, i have like men's attitude and behaviour, they talk about something that is clear to you exept their life to love.
• Australia
22 Jun 09
I think there is a perception in society that men cheat more than women. I don't know if that perception is correct or not, but based on my personal experiences, it is right. Of the four serious relationships I have had, 3 of my partners have cheated, and I have never once done it. So I guess that I personally believe the perception commonly held. There are many reasons why people cheat - they're bored, they've fallen out of love, they were never in love in the first place, they're lonely, they're unhappy. Sadly, many people think that it's easier to cheat than to try and fix the problem/s in their current relationship.
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Previously, it was largely men that cheated. However, thanks to the womens movement, women have closed the gender gap considerably. Last research I had the displeasure of reading, the numbers were 27% women, and 32% of men. That must be at least five years old now. I wager the numbers are closer, and higher.
22 Jun 09
I do find this sort of gender based question a bit pointless. People lie and cheat according to their personalities and the way they have been brought up. I don't think gender has any bearing on it.
• United States
22 Jun 09
I think the temptation to cheat is equal among men and women.
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
Since this discussion is not specifically on any occasions. If we speak between and husband and wife. I think husband is most cheater that wife. Even if their are wife cheated their husband. They are less in number compare to husband cheated their wife. If we speak without the involvement of marriage. The most cheated is women. Why? Because base on my observation women is a good in terms of hiding a secret. If we all note in some instances. There are men, marrying their girl friend without noting that she is pregnant from another man or she have kids in their place. This only my opinion I don't about yours?
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
It's definitely men... I guess it's in their blood already... there's a lot of causes why someone is cheating on their partners, some are not satisfied with their partners, others just falling out of love...
• United States
21 Jun 09
I think its equal that men and woman cheat. Its not just men that do it women do it as well they just dont get caught as much as men do. I think alot of men cheat because they cant be with jsut one person they think they have to have many woman to be happy instead of just having one. And i think a lot of women cheat because they think that if men can do it why cant they. Which i could understand that but however why do you want to do something else that someone else is doing if you know its wrong. Its just common sence that you shouldnt cheat on someone. If you dont want to be with them then dont no point in cheating just tell them your done and move on with whatever it is you want to do. But for most men they do deny cheating even when they get caught doing it and you usually dont catch a woman cheating because they have more common sence to get caught. But it just depends on the person really on why they cheat or dont cheat.
@sonusd (1548)
• India
21 Jun 09
It is very difficult to decide who cheats because you ahve not mentioned here about which relation you are talking or just you want to know the things over all, as I beleive if you are talking about lover relation both may be in same position ebcause with out experience no body can blame any one as my girl friend cheated me and left me so I felt that women are cheater but one of my friend who cheates all girl so in their opinion all man are cheater so this opinion will vary from person to person
@x_Jo_x (1042)
21 Jun 09
Its difficult to say. My initial thoughts where "Men!!" but i guess thats not necessarily true, probably plenty of women do cheat aswell. Men i would think are probably tempted more, but i guess they dont always give in to those temptations, and women can be tempted aswell. I think it 100% depends on the situation. I havent been cheated on, but from things i have heard i would go with men