How to choose a bestfriend?

@myx_03 (540)
Philippines
June 24, 2009 8:36am CST
Can you guys help me with this question. How do you choose your bestfriend? There are people who chose their bestfriend because of their similarities and some of bestfriends are known each other in many years. How about you guys? How do you choose your bestfriend? Happy mylotting!
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8 responses
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
24 Jun 09
I choose best friend because we match and equality of one another, and can be protective, help and share in the love and grief. We are easy to find friends in the happy situation, but a little friend in difficult circumstances. so.. a best friend is a friend in difficult and sad situation.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Whatever the circumstances a bestfriend is always there. Thanks!
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Whatever the circumstances a bestfriend is always there. Thanks!
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Whatever the circumstances a bestfriend is always there. Thanks!
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
i never choose the friends i have. well aside from being having the same similarities as long as we jive on to anything in good terms then she/he will be a good friend of mine. even my best friends, i never chooses them. they are just my longtime friends since high school days. though i may have many friends but there still which i called my bestfriends! jhelai
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Happy for you, you have bestfriends. Thanks for the response.
@srsddn (98)
• India
24 Jun 09
Well, there is another question which comes to mind. How to choose a friend? I think apart from similarities which you have mentioned other factors like reinforcement of some positive experiences, the frequencies of such experiences and so on makes you to choose a friend and some of them become best friends over period of time. So it is among friends that you find one which could be called the best and some where you have to make initiation.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
That's good response. Thank you.
@cheverlie (237)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
There is ni exactly specific criteria in choosing a bestfriend. That's for me. For if so, it is more than eyes can see. As well as, people can judge.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
There are people who is choosing that way. Thanks!
@lvjunjie (80)
• China
24 Jun 09
yeah ,as a Chinese proverb saying :a friend in need is a friend indeed . I mean the person may be against in some aspects .They are not often to extoll you in the real life .Seen from the bulletin ,you will know what I mean .It's written on your heart not just on the eulogy or fanfare .TO always give your suggestion or point out your flaw that is to say he or she take care of you anyway .
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Thank you for your response, thats a big help for my question.
• United States
24 Jun 09
I have very good friends I called my best friends cos they are always there for me. they can go extra miles for me without forcing them to do so. it will interest you I have never look for them it happen naturally through a process. you dont choose a best friends. There are things that qualifies one to be a best friend. A best friend is some one who understands you, share deep secrets,you are compatible and trusthworth person . a person that will not talk against you at your back, the person that will be by your side at all times, a shoulder to lean on, a person that will like you despite all your weekness How can you chose person like that ? it has to take time . making best friends is a process it take s time My dear
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
Thank you donrichwell, that's a nice response, I see.. Having a bestfriend is a process, Im glad that you have.
• India
24 Jun 09
The one who shows interests in your likes and dislikes and moreover takes care of you and guides your way is your best friend.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Thanks, nice response.
@Wink24 (167)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
hello. i choose him/her as my bestfriend if he/she is true to me. it's okay if we only had a few similarities or even if no similarities at all as long as she/he is there when i need him/her and of course vice versa because for me, a bestfriend is a second person that i can count on after my family/relatives even if in good or bad times. happy mylotting to you too pren.. ^^,