do you hate your friend!!

India
June 24, 2009 9:52am CST
i dont hate my friend.but sometimes we tend to hate our friends or i should say,tend to get jelous of them.sometimes we are not happy with the fame our friend gets.so do you hate your friend?
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@bubuth (1816)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
I love my friends but there are times that i feel that i really hate them specially when i feel that they are making bad issues about me, I call them plastic friends,they are not real friend. But i have a true friend that not making bad ssue about me,instead of making bad issue about me they tell me honestly what they don't like about me. I like that kind of friend so i will know what are my characteristic that i need to change.
@carolbee (16243)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Nope, I dearly love one of my close friends. She's so caring and sweet. She wouldn't be a friend if I hated her. We have a good understanding and neither of us is jealous of the other. I have had friends in the past that I avoided so they would just go away. Eventually they got the hint and we no longer are friends. I have to have a valid reason to fade out of someone's life and both times it's been over me loaning them money.
@suruchi86 (1873)
• India
25 Jun 09
I also don't hate my friends. But, yes, sometimes I do get jealous of them, when they are having some special thing, which I'm not having.
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
24 Jun 09
I dun really hate my frens.. Though there might be someone bad in my group of frenz, but still, they teach us some valuable lessons in life.. lol =D And those lessons are usually 'expensive' which causes us to be hurt or whatever.. So, without them, we wont actually know who are the good frenz we have.. lol =D So, i cant really hate my frenz, even though they have treated me badly, as they are part of my life experience ^_^
@abanerji (1026)
• India
24 Jun 09
i don't hate my friends for their success. if they succeed and i don't that means they are doing things better than me. i have an opportunity to learn from them and do my things in the way they do them. there is no point in being jealous of freinds and then hating them.
@ratyz5 (7831)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
As you have mentioned in your post, there are indeed times when I envy my friends with the luck that they have with things that I also would like to happen to myself. Good things or good things happening to them. Of course, I don't hate them for being more lucky than I am but, envy is still there. Then again, there would be times wherein they would be envying me as well so, I guess it just goes around every now and then. (^_^ )
@jules67 (2790)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
No, not at all. There is no reason why I should hate her. And besides, we are already mature individuals to do that. Friends do get jealous once in a while over the success of the other. It is normal , but how you manage that jealousy is all that matters. I do make that as an inspiration for me to do better in my life. That is what friends should be.
@ANTIQUELADY (36491)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I don't hate anyone. There are some people i dislike & don't want to be around them but hate them no. HATE is a very strong word.
@acevivx (1566)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Of course not! If a person is your friend, it is not possible that you will hate him/her and still call him/her a friend. But since we all have human frailties, it is quite possible that I could be jealous or envious or even get mad at a friendbut such feelings will not stay. In the end, since the person is my friend, i would be able yto get over such feelings.