Do you marry your lover??

India
June 25, 2009 1:01am CST
We all fall in love but not all are lucky enough to get to live with that person life long. Sometimes we love one person but have to marry another, sometimes we marry the person our family choose for us, sometimes you marry and then fall in love and sometimes the person we love doesn't share the same feeling! Did you get to marry the person you had loved? Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it.
4 responses
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
Hi there! Yes, I did. Later in our friendship, my best friend and I fell in love with each other and we got married on my twentieth birthday. Now, we've been married for almost seven years.
• India
25 Jun 09
congrats!!! ya i understand yours friendship.
• India
25 Jun 09
congrats!!! ya i understand yours friendship.
• India
27 Jun 09
Love is beautiful.It makes 1s life complete.I am also in love.And m proud to be one.My lover is the one who made my life and taught me to live and to be happy.We have an age difference of ten years between us but it never came in between us.My mom knows about him in my family but my dad dosen't knows.This dosent mean that if he says no,il leave him.I love my dad the most in my life and my love the second most...And i cant live without both of them.And thus i never thought of living without my love or my dad.I ll marry the person whom i hav loved...only...and i know that my dad will also agree one day...Bcoz if we hav loved each other truely,we'll be one.........And m witing for the great day.And please dnt give love such a name....its beautiful...we all born in love and we all will die in love.......its a part of our lives.......................Anyways this was according to me.And if you liked it please dnt forget it to mark as the best 1...
• China
25 Jun 09
Hi, mermaid here. As for me, I haven't married, but I'm dating someone that I truely loved. That is a good beginning, isn't it? The situations you mentioned above do occured from time to time, some of which happen because of objective circumstances, while the other happen because of their personal choices. But most of the time, we can make our choice that which one we should marry. Love is a fragile bowl, if we put too much material thinking in it, we would break it and get hurt. Anyway, I wish everyone good luck!
• United States
25 Jun 09
Well I am not married yet, but I would only ever marry for love, nothing else. My mother has always said that you should make your first marriage for love, and then if you divorce and want to get married again, you better marry for money haha, I don't really agree with that philosophy hehe. My future husband will be chosen by no one but myself, my family's opinion matters, it's just that I should make the final call. I love my boyfriend a lot, and after two years of being with him I really believe that I will marry him, not soon, but eventually, after college and such. And love is nothing like the measles to me haha, it is a bit better than that I hope!