Have I out welcomed my stay?

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So yesterday was my 23rd birthday and it was actually I think the best birthday I ever had. I had 2 birthday cakes, went out to eat at a really nice resturant, got a nameplate and a lot of cards and birthday wishes. Well, I don't know about others but me personally I would never deliver bad news to someone on their birthday and I had my friend do that to me. Last October, my ex and I broke up and I had no where to go so she took me in. I really appreciated it and it was nice. In the begining, my roommate had no car so I took her everywhere and she even borrowed my car when I was at work. I woke up early mornings and took her son to school because if she didn't wake up, he wouldn't even go to school. I did her elderly mom's laundry, cooked dinner, helped clean, etc. I was like a housewife basically. She finally got a car in late March or early April so what it seemed my services were not needed as much. I am still paying her rent. Every now and then she will make a comment because I am never at home and always doing something. It's not my fault that she likes to stat at home. Back in December I met a guy and we became close we are not in a relationship but a good friendship. Little by little I stopped being at the house so much and doing things. I basically go to his house everyday after work and sometimes sleep over. I got a new job so I work longer hours which means I am not at the house. A typical day I wake up around 8 leave by 9 and don't return to the house until around 1 or 2 in the morning. I don't eat her food, I still help out when I can and now she is telling me out of no where that I have to leave the house. It took me by shock after all what I've done for her. A lot of people think she is doing it because I am not at the house anymore and really only shower and sleep there. Whatever her reason may be I think it is wrong for her to do that on my birthday and just give me short notice especially since she knows that I have no where to go. I guess I just really want to know if she is angry because I am not at home as much so she actually has to do work or what. I mean I think I am a good roommate, we never fight about money, I pay her more than I should, I take care of her kid and mom more than she does and now that I am not avilable for those services she gives me all of this. What do you think of the situation? Any feedback will be gretly appreciated!