If you saw your best friends husband with other woman will you tell your frien

June 25, 2009 5:33pm CST
Is a hard decision...few months ago, i saw my best friend husband with other woman in a restaurant, and they kiss each other. I was shocked. Because i know that they have a happy marriage. And all time mt friend say to me that shes husband is so nice, so understanding, and he love she a lot. I was really happy for my friend, because she really is a great woman, and she deserve to be happy. Shes husband is younger with few years, and she was after a bad marriage. so..i was sure that she find shes happyness, with this man. But when i saw him with other woman i was shoked, and i know that he is a lier. I was in dubt to say she or not...but because she was my best friend, i decided to say to she. You know what happened? She don t want listen to me, she was crazy angry with me, and don t want answer to my calls and don t want come in visit any more. I respected shes decision of course, and i let she to find truth in time. And after a while, she catch him with this woman in theirs bedroom. Now she want talk with me again, but i refuse. What do you think? I was right in my decision to stop my friendship with she or not?
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5 responses
@kryzell (921)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
I understand your friend for hating you when you told her about her husbands infedilty issues. As a wife, it's normal for her to deny this fact. If you ask me whether or not, it's right to talk to her now that she finally found out the truth... my advise is yes. You mentioned that she is your bestfriend... you should know that now is the time that she needs you the most.
• United States
26 Jun 09
You are in a hard place. Out of loyalty to your friend, she needs your friendship, true happiness is not found in another person. You must be happy with your self alone. Because as people(human beings) we often fall so short of being everything someone else wants us to be. If I were her, I would not want to be used or fooled. Don't refuse to talk to her, she needs friendship, she needs support. We must do what we can to support each other.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
25 Jun 09
Hi, in this kind of situations, i try don t be involved, because i know that people are strange, and they don t act rationaly when are in love. They tend to be blind,and don t believe something wrong even somebody tell them. But seems that when they see with own eyes is much better. She don t deserve your friendship if she don t believe you.
@TrvlArrngr (4057)
• United States
25 Jun 09
I am sorry you went through that. That is a tough situation to be in. I know I would want someone to tell me so I dont look like the idiot that is clueless and with the possibility of diseases - ugh -
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
25 Jun 09
Hello Maria, If I see my best friend's husband kissing another lady then definetly I will let her know and it depends on how you make her trust our words. It is going to be a bit difficulty when we comment something bad about their husbad's character and they may not trust us. I basically have a habit of taking pictures/photoes so probably I would just take a picture (at least with cell camera)and will show it to her if she do not trust my words at first instance. You said she saw both of them in bed room then why do you hesitate to meet her. She needs a friend now to share her problems so go and talk to her. About that stupid husband let her take the decision.