CaN yOu ChOOse beTweEn mUm aNd DaD ?
June 26, 2009 12:45am CST
I am more close to my dad and my lil sis is more close to my mom.Some people say that boys are more close to moms and girls are more close to their dads and some say that girls are more close to their moms and boys to their dads...... What do you all think??? And whom are you more close to???
26 Jun 09
It's Freud's psychoanalytic theory by using the term "Electra complex"that makes a scientific explanation to the daughter's attachment to her father. It's analogous to a boy's attachment to his mother that forms the basis of the "Oedipus complex". If you do some search , you can get more information about the theory. As for me, I'm closer to my father, it's somewhat like a proof:) While it's not important at all, since I have the equal love towards my parents, which is not always expressed in the same ways. That's something that makes a difference.I think you are the same, right? :)
26 Jun 09
i think it depends. maybe who spends more time with u,and u'll be closer to whom. but to me,though as a girl, i think i'm the same close to my parents. but i must confess that some topics,i only can talk it with mom,that's only cause not suitable for dad,such as the menstrualtopic,hehe
29 Jul 09
Yeah, I chose my mom but dad loves me more. I have one big brother. and both of us, me and my brother like our mom. But dad likes me more and mom likes brother more. I hear from people that dad like their daughters and mom like their sons. I do not know what happens if in a family there are 2 sisters or 2 brothers... like that....and I have seen this that the parents mostly love their smaller ones.