CaN yOu ChOOse beTweEn mUm aNd DaD ?

India
June 26, 2009 12:45am CST
I am more close to my dad and my lil sis is more close to my mom.Some people say that boys are more close to moms and girls are more close to their dads and some say that girls are more close to their moms and boys to their dads...... What do you all think??? And whom are you more close to???
4 responses
• China
26 Jun 09
It's Freud's psychoanalytic theory by using the term "Electra complex"that makes a scientific explanation to the daughter's attachment to her father. It's analogous to a boy's attachment to his mother that forms the basis of the "Oedipus complex". If you do some search , you can get more information about the theory. As for me, I'm closer to my father, it's somewhat like a proof:) While it's not important at all, since I have the equal love towards my parents, which is not always expressed in the same ways. That's something that makes a difference.I think you are the same, right? :)
• India
26 Jun 09
Ya,this is the same with me.But my my mom sometimes feels neglected abd feels 'j' when i support my dad the most...and dis makes me more confusing...Anyways thanks for sharing your response with me.
• China
26 Jun 09
Well, if so, I think you need to do somthing to let your mother know your love towards her. The feeling of being neglected causes hurt.
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• China
26 Jun 09
Well, if so, I think you need to do somthing to let your mother know your love towards her. The feeling of being neglected causes hurt.
• China
26 Jun 09
i think it depends. maybe who spends more time with u,and u'll be closer to whom. but to me,though as a girl, i think i'm the same close to my parents. but i must confess that some topics,i only can talk it with mom,that's only cause not suitable for dad,such as the menstrualtopic,hehe
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• India
26 Jun 09
That's absolutely true...........and i totally agree wid u.
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• India
31 Jul 09
Its not necessary that girls are close to dad and boys to mom. But for me my mom is everything,i cant imagine my life without her. My bro also love mom more than dad, its because my mom also love us much more than dad.
• India
31 Jul 09
See you said it na.........mum loves more than dad. For me.............my dad loves me the most more than my mum according to me because i know in real they both love me equally.....!!!
• India
29 Jul 09
Yeah, I chose my mom but dad loves me more. I have one big brother. and both of us, me and my brother like our mom. But dad likes me more and mom likes brother more. I hear from people that dad like their daughters and mom like their sons. I do not know what happens if in a family there are 2 sisters or 2 brothers... like that....and I have seen this that the parents mostly love their smaller ones.