is it okay if your partner flirts with other girls/boys?

Philippines
June 26, 2009 11:15am CST
I read a magazine way back, just when i was only 16. She was asked if it's okay with when she sees her bf flirting with other women. And without any hesitation, she replied "Yes, as long as there's no feelings involve." I'm just wondering why she said that. It's a no-no for me actually. How about you guys? sisters? What's your opinion about this?
6 responses
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Hello mgtbarroso , I have to say NO. I don't even like it when it is online during his broadcast because I don't do that during my own.I think it is rude and shows no respect. In person he can't even catch me looking at another guy not because I don't look. It is because I don't show I look. I haven't seen anyone that was worth losing my relationship with my b/f.
@gracie04 (4554)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Flirting with other girls? a big, no-no for me! I am not a jealous type of person.. It's okay if my hubby's going to be friends with his officemates but not to the extent of flirting with them! you know, flirting can lead to another level and i don't want that to happen, never!
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
26 Jun 09
Definitely not okay. I'm a jealous person and my boyfriend flirting with other girls would really get into my nerves.
@dodo19 (34317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
26 Jun 09
I'm not the jealous type of person. However, if my fiance would flirt with another women, then I would definitely have a problem with this, even if there isn't any feelings involved. It's just not the type of thing that I would appreciate from him. If a man is serious about me, like I know my fiance is, then he simply won't look at another woman. And I think that this goes for every serious relationship.
@kmaram (2535)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Ofcourse not, its a big no for me .. i am a jealous person and if this will happen it will result to arguement between me and my partner. And i dont think its proper to make flirt with other if you have already relationship. I dont think also the idea of other people that they are ok with flirting with other people eventhough they have relationship, i can't stand it - i dont say i salute those people who agree with this flirting things, but i hope you know the consequences of your acts, but for me is a big big no, i hope i can make sense, happy mylotting =)
@jrking (51)
• United States
26 Jun 09
I'm really a jealous person, so I have always had a problem with my partners flirting with someone else. I know that it's harmless, and I am one who loves to flirt too. But I don't flirt if I am involved with someone else.