This is not LOVE! This is LUST!

Philippines
June 29, 2009 1:10pm CST
i have many guy friends who wants to do it with me. why me? some of them have girlfriends. i do not show motives that i like them but they automatically come to me. what should i do??
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15 responses
@david2005 (803)
• Canada
23 Sep 09
I think that it is totally up to you to decide on what to do cause the ball is in your court and your the only one that can make a decision like that but what ever you decide though is your choice and it is the right choice for you so don't question yourself if you end up doing it with them just think you had fun that's all that matters.
• United States
2 Jul 09
I was in the same position until i got married. I had 5 of my guy friends who wanted to bang me but once i got married they left me alone. I have not talked to amny of them since becuase i felt that the only reason they really hung around was to see if they were gonna get some.
@pupupd (1521)
• India
1 Jul 09
as everyone has said before me. I have the same opinion, the reason they get attracted to you is because you are damn sexy. You should say that straight on their face that you do not want to have any kind of physical relation with them. You should serve them right. And the ones who have girlfriend, you can easily threaten them by saying that you may tell his girlfriend about his motives if he continues to pester you. Have fun, enjoy life!
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
Well, in my opinion, you must have a very attractive appeal. Guys out there might be so attractive to you in a different light. Advice girl, stay away from them since they might want you as some girl whom they can get it on with. Just don't mind them! Guys like that probably do not respect you that much or they can't just control themselves upon saying their truthful feelings about how they lust about you. Be careful!
@ezon23 (6)
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
The question is, DO YOU WANT TO DO IT WITH THEM???? :D it's up to you, you have the choice to avoid it or to play with it. Just an advise, better not to do it to those who already have a boyfriend for it may lead to serious problem when you got caught. And if you still want to do it, just do it safe and enjoy...
@Nir360 (139)
• Israel
30 Jun 09
Well if you really look good and you're attractive then they will want to do it with you
• India
30 Jun 09
If they Have Girl Friends Stay Away ....... Best ......... But if you think you Want to have Fun With That guy .............. Be Careful and Enjoy ......... You Have the Choices ........ Make the Right One ..... Do what Your Gut Feeling tells You Then........... Never Repent Your Actions ............ Take Care .......
• Italy
30 Jun 09
Probably you are sexy and probably you are sexier than your friends' girlfriends... or maybe you have a great body... The fact is that, if all your friends have girlfriends, you have to insult them!!! They are behaving like children!!!
• United States
30 Jun 09
First of all guys want to do it all the time no matter what. Second its because they like you and think you are beautiful. Don't do anything you don't want to do. I'm not sure you can do anything to rectify the situation. I would just be honest with them and tell them you just want to be friends.
@sonusd (1544)
• India
30 Jun 09
May be your attitude attracting them towards you and they may think that you are the lady with whom they can enjoy most and there will be no force to be stay for ever with them or may be you are so innocent so they want to take benifit of it so beaware for yourself
@OConnell87 (1046)
29 Jun 09
i have some guy friends like that, and the reason they like me, they said is because i don't pretend to be something i'm not and that i speak to them as a friend and not like a silly girl does sometimes. It is lust at first i believe anyway, could turn into love but that would only be if you liked them more than lust anyway. None have girlfriends but if they did i would remind them that they have a girlfriend and if they want me or other girls they should seriously think about if they want their girlfriend
@megumiart (3782)
• United States
29 Jun 09
Young guys are often just driven for the physical feeling in doing it, most girls do it for the emotional representation of "unity" or connection. If you're looking for a real relationship, I suggest you date one guy you are interested in, and don't do it with him until, at least, the 5th or 6th date. If you just want to have fun with no strings attached, I say go ahead and have one night stands, just make sure the guy doesn't have a gf.
@vijayanths (7878)
• India
29 Jun 09
It is your life and your body. You can decide what you like.But guys will be like that, wanting to do it with any one who is available. So better think twice before moving with a guy. This is my humble opinion. hope you won't mind my words.
• United States
29 Jun 09
hit them upside the head!
• Philippines
29 Jun 09
Run away from lust. It is not God's will for you to indulge into such. It is still better to keep yourself pure before marriage. If you can still wait, the better. I think you are young and a lot of temptations are coming your way. But it is wise for those who wait. This is what I can say to you. If you can still hold yourself and be away from lust and temptations, do so. It is all up to you. I don't have anything against your opinion if it does not agreed with mine.