How do you like to earn money in these days?

China
June 29, 2009 11:52pm CST
I like to earn money through my efforts. No pains, no gains. Many young girls won't go to work and just find a man who has a lot of money to live with. They never want to make their livings by themselves. I feel such a life is just a shame. They would never get others' respect, I'm sure. How do you think?
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• United States
30 Jun 09
I think its not just young girls that are doing this, there are both men and women out there that do indeed just find a partner to live off of. It is a shame, because it gives people that stay at home to raise there children a bad rap. I have three children and my daycare cost more than I earned working. I did feel guilty, just staying home because the majority of society thinks that staying home even with kids is lazy. I couldn't live with that so what I did was open up a home daycare, and made more than when I was working outside my home. But, I think people that sponge off of others for no legit reason its a matter of respect for themselves. They have none.
• United States
30 Jun 09
The first time that I really got payed was when I was 10 my mom worked in a bakery making cakes and whent to work with her to help her out and to also help the owner. I liked "working" there because every friday or sunday when my mom got payed I also got payed I would get a small cake decoratec how I wanted it and also 20 or 30 dollars depending on how mnay days I when there. And after that I would help my mom clean houses and I would only work or help out in the weekends and also during my school brakes. And my first real job that I got on my own was when I was 16 and after that I have always worked excep when I was pregnant from my first and my second kid. I don't think that all the girls or women that get merried and don't work do it because they are lasy. Some migh not work because the rather take care of the house and if they have kids it would be becaue of the kids and the house and also the husband. There are also some men that don't let the wifes work because they think that they should just be at home evev if they might need their help and others because they want to take care of them. Each person has their own reason and some I don't understand but I respect they reasons.