HOW MANY GFs/BFs HAVE YOU BEEN WITH?
By cainam
@cainam (493)
Philippines
June 30, 2009 4:27am CST
my boyfriend had around 70 past girlfriends before me, most of my friend had 3, but my boyfriend now is my first one who i hope will also be the last one.. it's normal nowadays to have been with more than one boyfriends before finding the right one. some even say that it's better to collect and then select.. it sounds like a joke but others really live with it.. it's a cool thing especially for guys to have many past relationships, but i don't think that it's the same thing when it comes to girls particularly in our country.people here especially the elders are too conservative.. i don't belong to the elders so i will not condemn you for having a hundreds of boyfriends/girlfriends before. i'm not talking about having more than one partner at the same time but flings also count here guys. count as many as you can!
4 responses
@minckler104 (28)
• United States
2 Jul 09
haha.. this is a funny subject.. I honestly don't know if I could sit down and think of all the relationships/flings that I've had in my entire life.. If I had to take a guess, I would guess probably around 100.. AT LEAST! Now don't get me wrong, I didn't sleep with over 100 ppl, lol.. I think its a good idea for people to date and explore while they are young and growing up. That way you can find your likes/dislikes of relationships, so when you find the right person, you know they are right for you!
@minckler104 (28)
• United States
6 Aug 09
What is up with this world today?!?! It shouldn't matter if I'm a guy or a girl... Just because I am a girl..doesn't mean that I couldn't have slept with more ppl than a guy? Why do guys have more of a right to sleep with more people than a girl? Example.. If a guy sleeps with 20 people its like oh cool whatever... but if a girl sleeps with 20 ppl then "omg shes such a sl*t".. why?!?!? I do not understand this..
you are the one and only of each other!
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
hello cainam!
i only have one boyfriend and he is my husband now. and my husband i think just have 3 before me...only 1 last for a year and most are long distance relationship and according to him nothing's serious! hehehe
with people who do have so many gf/bf well i can't say anything about them...maybe they are just that lovable and attractive! hehehe for me its okay as long as they are one at a time and the intention is not bad...there are some people who do not want serious relationship at all...what they only want is companion...like my mom, she told me that before my father, she have lots of relationships, some last long, some don't. in all those relationships only 2 is serious i guess...and with the others she said that all she want then is companion...i don't know if that's bad or what but what is important is that she finally settle with my father and find true love with him...and become a very faithful wife after marriage...and i think that's what more important! who we are or how are we after the marriage!
@R0CKABILLYBABE (136)
• United States
11 Jul 09
I have had 3 serious bfs.. If u want to call it that i do date but I certianly wouldnt consider them a bf just a get to know u and date and have fun. I also thing its good for a guy to date alot that way they can get all that out of there system and b ready to settle when the right moment comes along. I went through that alot with my ex my sons dad. My opinion
