Are you ever feel tired with your partner ?

Kuta, Indonesia
July 1, 2009 4:40pm CST
All People surely ever have feel bored or tired. I just want to know, do you ever feel tired or bored with your partner? How to hold your posture so that the situation?
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@HelScream (2829)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
No, never, well you know my friend once you love someone , truly someone each day that passes that you are with your partner is like another day in paradise... find out how and why you love your partner in the first place then you will find yourself smiling why you and your partner are even together , that would give you enough reason to be happy.....
• Kuta, Indonesia
2 Jul 09
Yup .. when I remembered my first time meet with my partner, I think that time is very funny . But my partner be angry or annoyed when I am talking about that time.
@HelScream (2829)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
you have to revive the feeling of LVE then everything will be alright dont make this a hindrance for further arguments lve is all that ever matters my friend ....it's all about lve why you 2 are together.... ty for the best response
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
Actually sometimes i feel tired most of all when we are arguing in somethings but... I guess its part of it when you say tired it does'nt mean you don't want to continue in your relationship maybe the reason is tired in arguing debating like that but if you love each other so much understanding will stand out in both of you.
• Kuta, Indonesia
2 Jul 09
ya .. I feel tired, because we often quarrel and argue that because of trivial things.
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I have felt that way many times in relationships. It just gets old with the same old day in and day out with a person. You have to make new things or it will get stale very fast. One person in the relationship should have to be the one to do it every time either.
• Kuta, Indonesia
2 Jul 09
Thanks for the advice
• Philippines
1 Jul 09
i am currently in a 2 year and 3 month relationship and i have to admit sometimes it does get old. i am especially a woman of novel ideas and novel things and i don't like sticking with something for too long, but i do WANT to keep it alive. i think it's just that desire to keep the relationship going that you need to keep it going, and i get that desire by thinking of all the good things my partner and i have been through, all the wonderful moments we've shared with one another. you can never really keep that giddy, "honey moon" stage feeling. never count on that to last. but i try to come up with new ways to experience old things. little renovations to everyday things you do with your partner count. i find that the best surprises are the ones that come out of nowhere--not the ones that come in time with an anniversary or a birthday--but the ones that he does just out of nowhere. but i do want to clarify that being bored is totally different from being tired. you can do something about bored. but tired is something that you need to reassess. because for me, something that takes too much of my energy translates to something that isn't me. if the relationship is too taxing, to tiring to keep up, then maybe it just isn't for you. because the best relationships cultivate who you are as a person and help you grow as an individual.
• Kuta, Indonesia
2 Jul 09
Thanks for sharing your info and advice, I will remember it.
• China
8 Jul 09
my girlfriend have been together for two years ,the first year ,it is fresh and amazing ,we always think of each other ,thatis good feelings , now we all graduated ,we are in different cities ,even though not sooo amazing any more ,but we dont feel bored ,we just feel too diffecult to inthis condition that we work in different cities . i am trying to figure out how to be together ... i often think of her ,maybe disdence is the reason to miss...
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
3 Jul 09
Yup, there are times whereby i do feel bored and tiring wiht my partner, in the past.. I guess it's partly the same routine that we do everyday, and seeing each other almost everyday.. Thus whenever there's some free time for me, i will be most glad as it means i have some private moments for myself or going out with my frenz.. BUt when i have more freedom for too long a time, i will start to feel lonely and wanting to get back to my usual routine again.. haha =D I guess, it's partly habit by then, spending time with the same person and doing same things.. hehe ^_^
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
i tend to give up whenever i can no longer fix matters... i'm still very youg though... :) uhmmmmmmmmm...... holding on is hard if you know for a fact that you can't be that persistent and in my case, i really do love the person but when loving him makes my life miserable, i let go... that's when i'm really2x tired and fed up already.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
I feel tired physically, but my love for my girlfriend will never tired. True love never fades, and if you truly love the person you will never ever get tired to love him/her.