I'm not a big mouth! I am a "SOCIAL BUTTERFLY".....

@dloveli (4369)
United States
July 3, 2009 7:22am CST
I consider myself intelligent and understanding. I am not a shy person. I will walk up to someone and initiate a conversation. I must admit that it has been insinuated that I may talk too much. I know, I know for those of you who have are familiar with me it may be hard for you to fathom. It was for me as well. lol Anyways I frown upon the words "BIG MOUTH". I had a teacher back in second grade who labeled me,what I consider to be right on the money, "A SOCIAL BUTTERFLY" I think that best describes me. Dont you? I cant help myself! It is really hard for me NOT to voice my opinion. I am not a know it all. Maybe I just like to hear myself. What about you? Are you a big mouth or a social butterfly? dl
11 responses
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
4 Jul 09
I am intelligent too but I am also shy and backward. I am not accepted by alot of people for whatever reason it may be. I tend to keep mainly to myself even though I would like to be friendly to people. They just aren't friendly back.
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
4 Jul 09
That is their stupidity. You shouldnt have to be any different to be accepted by people. That is the problem society bases friendships and relationships on looks, clothes, who you know or what you drive. WHo needs them. I dont hang with anyone.If I was to count I have acquaintances but no one I can hang out with. I wish you and a few other myLotters lived closer because I would love to hang out with you. I dont care if you quiet loud, fat, skinny, big mouth or a social butterfly. From today on You're my girl! Please consider me as a friend. I would be honored. dl
@shakil8 (407)
• India
3 Jul 09
well i guess everyone here are social butterfly thats why they are here......and i also talk too much but only with the one i know.......because they can bear me lol....
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Big mouths are people who talk just to hear themselves. Social butterflies are people like us. Highly intelligent people who like to share their views and opinions. WE ARE SOCIAL BUTTERFLIES MY FRIEND! HOW COULD I HAVE NOT SEEN THIS BEFORE? lol I would make a great activist! Hear me roar!
• United States
3 Jul 09
I'm a social butterfly, but not really a big mouth. I hang out with many groups of friends and most of the time we don't even really talk much and do some stupid stuff like messing around with stuff.
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@dloveli (4369)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I dont think that youre a big mouth either. MyLot members would have to be considered social butterflies because of all the discussions they create and respond too. When we're with friends we do tend to act silly but again it would be considered a social interaction. That means, you are a "SOCIAL BUTTERFLY"! No ifs ans or buts about it. dl
• United States
3 Jul 09
In my younger years I was very much a "Social Butterfly" however now in my golden years I am developing into quite an opinionated big mouth. Perhaps it is because I have the experience behind me to back up my opinions. I think I have earned to right to say what I think and if people do not like it then they do not have listen to me.
@FFFrocks (306)
• Canada
4 Jul 09
I like your attitude and your honesty!
@suzzy3 (8357)
7 Jul 09
I have to say something as well my friend is the same and we spend all day talking about nothing or talking as we walk around.If I go to meeting which I sometimes do I always have an opinion and am not afraid of voiceing it.I like to think I am friendly and take an interest in most things.I will be put right if need be and like to hear a balanced conversation,but even if I don't start to talk people find me and start a chat,most people are like that,I think it is nice,especially on a bus journey or waiting in a queue.
@tipay26 (873)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
Hello! this is my point of view regarding your question.I have been called a big mouth myself and I must admit I know that I am a couple of times because like what you have said you really like to be heard and you like to voice out your opinion.But there are instances in our life especially in our online life that we can't prevent to encounter personalities which has this different point of view from ours and we can't help it but just to respect their stand.I have learned my lesson well that if I have something going on in my mind,I will not share all of it online because online personalities have their equal rights too in voicing out their opinions and that we should be able to respect that stand.I am saying we can still voice our points in a manner that we won't be starting a fight and that respect begets respect.Well for that matter I consider myself both I can have friends by voicing out my side and sometimes when I got carried away, i just talk and talk and talk..
• United States
4 Jul 09
I'm a big mouth lol
@punkincat (216)
• United States
4 Jul 09
I have been called a social butterfly and been told I am to quiet by the same people. Go figure that one out. ( I'm still trying to )
@byfaithonly (10716)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Oh I certainly do like Social Butterfly better than Big Mouth - I'm more on the shy side and wouldn't say I'm either although when asked I will certainly give my honest opinion. Now one of my sisters - she is big time Social Butterfly while the other is major Big Mouth :)
@rainmark (4306)
3 Jul 09
Hi, im always a social butterfly it hink so coz nobody yet calls me BIG MOUTH. But i know someone who i can really says she is BIG MOUTH. Cheers.
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
3 Jul 09
DOnt know about that which one I am but I do put my 2 cents in where I can and when I know something about what is being talked about . I pull no punches