Why am I a freak magnet?

July 5, 2009 11:57am CST
Are you a freak magnet? I am,the only people that seem to gravitate towards me are emotionally unstable, insecure psychopaths with serious problems!! seriously, Surely it can't just be me that finds this? Are any of you freak magnets? Why do these people seek me out? Does it mean that I am an emotionally unstable, insecure psychopath with serious problems?
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@toonvk (267)
• Belgium
6 Jul 09
I think it only means your very sociable and enjoyable. "Freaks" often are very insecure and don't feel themselves at home around normal people because most of the time they'll just get jelled at. It means your (too) kind for this sort of people. But that's a good thing! Do not lose it!
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
6 Jul 09
No it doesn't. It means that you are warm and kind. A beacon in the dark, drawing them like moths to a light. I was wondering why I hadn't run across any lately. They're all over there.
7 Jul 09
they are, like freaky sad, pathetic bulls to my red flag of brilliance! Warm and kind, could you tell my sister that? I'm still not taking your kid though!
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
7 Jul 09
Show this to your sister: You are warm, kind, intuitive, outspoken, brilliant, funny, a joy to have for a friend, perceptive, and definitely a voice worth listening to in this world. Now, will you take the step-daughter? Or, if you sister just wants to be contrary and do things to spite you, maybe she will? Wouldn't THAT be just desserts?
• Philippines
7 Jul 09
I am,both in a positive and negative way.I attract people who are "freak" - by that I meant people who are crazily funny and have a great sense of humor.a lot of my friends are really nice,funny people with a few "freaky" tendencies.negatively,I attract freaky guys.those who are interested in me are either married,have hang-ups with their exes,unhappily married,or those who don't earn decent living.I am in question also why I attract these negative freaks.I can't understand why,I am living my life positively,yet these freaks gravitate toward me.
7 Jul 09
me too, I never attract decent people, only sad losers with major emotional let downs!
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
I am in that situation too. I seems to find the wrong side of people to be my friends. It is sickening when I discovered their true colors. I have one or two from mylot who are emotionally unstable and they did not hide their true self. I took pity on them and still in communication with these people even after knowing that they are not normal as other people. Maybe my discussions are more to life and life problems that they are drawn to me, at least one confessed to it to me that they feel enlighten reading my responses or discussions. Don't worry they do us no harm as it is only in the virtual world.
5 Jul 09
I am a freak magnet in the real world too!
@underdogtoo (9599)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
We are all magnets for different kinds of people and it can be disconcerting at times. I am some kind of a freak but I think I speak the truth which some people do not like to hear. Cheers!!
5 Jul 09
I suppose we all do sometimes!
@reploid (1331)
• France
6 Jul 09
What I will tell you may seem weird. But here it is. The people you attract (the freak ones) comes to drain your energy. And you attract those ones because you have a week Aura. You are vulnerable when you don't develelop you aura. Meditation can help you add strength to your aura. People who got a broken aura may attract people who will try to steal them , confuse them. I don't know how to explain it, but i've read it all in a book and put in pratice though I did not believed in it. Now I'm sure it works. You can even attract love when you get to know the presence of your aura and how it works. Don't try to download a book about it, because only a few will tell you the real thing. Try to get pieces of information about it, This will help.
@FFFrocks (306)
• Canada
6 Jul 09
I tend to draw the freaks but I don't mind it. I'm not a judgemental person for the most part and quite accepting of peoples differences/oddities. I've been told it makes people comfortable around me.... It makes for some pretty good stories too, truth be told!
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
5 Jul 09
I have had this problem off and on all my life! I think I to much of a goody too shoes at times! I'm also known to be shy and quiet! These are the reasons I'm a freak magnet! This has happen with dating guys too! Anyway I know I'm normal! That took me along time to except and realize!
@HansonFan (1659)
• United States
5 Jul 09
I'm not a freak magnet, but I am a magnet for people with problems or people that are depressing. If people have a problem they always seem to come to me which brings me down...i try to be upbeat so its hard sometimes, especially when its family members that never seem to have anything happy to say. And no, that does not mean you yourself have serious problems, i think it is the exact opposite.
• United States
5 Jul 09
I think you can attract people and I think positive thinking techniques do work. There are people who put there mind to something and that is what they go on to do and I think the same can go for negative thinking. Some people think like the world is against them in a fearful way and so they find friends that think the same way and create their own small reality of a world worth fearing. I think a good technique would be to read up on biographies of people you admire and imitate them. Actually, imitation works for many artist and even the great artist used imitation to perfect their work. If you decide things are like this this and that I believe that is what they will be because in your mind you believe it and will live out your life as if they are how you decided, so its not coincidence. Just change your thinking