Have you ever dreamed of dead family member or close friend?

@catzzz (109)
Ireland
July 6, 2009 6:29pm CST
I always dream of my grandmother. I think I miss her too much. In Chinese, we believe that it's the signal from the dead people. "They" would like to tell you somethings. Do you believe it?
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4 responses
• United States
7 Jul 09
Hi catzzz, This is perfectly normal and natural. You are also correct in thinking that she wishes to communicate with you. In your tradition try gazing at the Bagua with one white or light blue candle burning nearby. Close your eyes and think of her and call out her birth name. Remain very still & listen for any type of response. Remember what was said and/or what you heard and record it in a diary or notebook. When you are finished, thank her for coming to you and put out the candle. This will help
@catzzz (109)
• Ireland
7 Jul 09
Yes, I think you are right. I never heard about such candle things... but I would talk to her when I visit her grave.
@clorissa123 (4930)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I am a Chinese too, and I heard of it many times. But for me, I never dreamt of any one from my deceased family member. Maybe I didn't miss them that much. But on every April season, my whole family go by their gravestone, and pay our respect to them. That might help a little.
@catzzz (109)
• Ireland
7 Jul 09
Maybe it's only becoz I think too much when I'm awake. Yes, sometimes, just pay your respect is good enough.
@AcireRo (54)
• United States
22 Jul 09
My grandfather... He's really the only person close to me that I've lost... And we were distanced before his timing cause he moved outta state. It just makes me feel weird cause I'm getting older and really starting to understand how to find out who people are... and it makes me feel like I didn't know my grandfather. But I like seeing him in my dreams. They've all been pleasant so far.
9 Jul 09
Hi, well I guess that is true, I guess they have an unfinished business. Maybe it is the only way of visiting you...