does talking bad about others make you feel better about yourself?

United States
July 9, 2009 6:20pm CST
then why do you talk bad about people? how often do you do it?well for me not nessarily with everyone i talk bad about. some people i talk bad about because i want everyone to know how i feel about this person. i want to let out some anger. i want to tell everyone on and off line that my sister sucks a$$. not literally well wrka (who really knows anywayS?) she could but on a serious note. i just hate her to death but i have to love her cause she family and that sucks she never does anything nice for me and we fight everyday. i don't any one has a sister like her. so i just talk bad about her because i want to tell everyone how horrible she really is not to make myself feel better. so sorry if i hurt anyone talking bad about her. i don't want anyone to dislike because i dislike some of my family members. and yeah once i did talk bad about this one girl just because she got everything i didn't. i know it wasn't right but i learned from that. it hurt her and made me feel horrible. i thought her winning all the time she wouldn't care. and i don't do it often probably 3 times a week. or less.
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@Citychic (4078)
• United States
9 Jul 09
talking bad about people........... Well seriously I try not to talk bad about people. I didn't come into this world to hate on people and I certainly don't plan on leaving here hating on anyone. There have only been a few people in my life that I didn't really care much for. I really and honestly cannot say that I ever really hated anyone. It's too bad that you feel this way towards your sister. I do wish that the two of you would try to make up. I was fortunate to be born with five sisters. One of them which wasn't really one of my favorites has passed on now. Now that she is gone. I miss her more than I ever dreamed that I would. You know, life is too short to go around hating on people. Learn to make love not war. Go out and do something nice for your sister,no matter how small. Don't sit around waiting for her to make the first move. You make the first move then see what happens. She may not respond back the way you'd like but at least you will have done your part. Believe me, you wouldn't want your sister to leave here not knowing that you loved her. My sister is gone now and i wished that I could tell her that I love her just one more time. sniff sniff, I think that deep down inside she knew that i loved her because I did tell her while she was still living. I just wished that things could have been different between the two of us. You still have a chance to try to work on your relationship with your sister Tiffany. So please do the right thing . God will bless you for it. Good luck, happy mylot!
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@baileycows (3669)
• United States
9 Jul 09
I don't talk about people make myself feel better, but stupid people just make me irate. My ex-best friend went and got a boob job she said she was going for a C and lied. Then she said the Dr. messed up and gave he double D's. Come to find out she wanted them and told everyone her Dr. messed up. It just makes me mad and I can't help but talk about how stupid she is. I just wish she would realize how stupid she is.