What i'm supposed to do?

Indonesia
July 11, 2009 2:05pm CST
Ive long relationship about 4 years with my girlfrend, eventhough we have relationship but our relationship is backstreet. Yesterday i asked her to marry me and finally my girlfriend accept my proposal!!!,but i'm very affraid to tell it to her father. I'm very affraid cause her father is very vicious and he never agree with our relationship.As far as i know i never have a problem with him Everytime i came to her house her father always expel me, i dunno why he doesnt like me..What i'm supposed to do?
3 responses
@rainmark (4306)
11 Jul 09
If i were you, go ahead and tell him that you going to marry his daughter. He must be happy for it coz someone is really serious and going to marry his daughter. Wether he likes it or not,just tell him and im sure he will agree with it. Just always show to her father that you are a good guy and you really love his daughter and everythings will be fine. Father's are always like that, very protected!
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
yeah he is very protected father, i'll do that, thanks for the advice, until now he still silent with me, but i know hes a good guy..someday he will accept me as son in law
@bird123 (10518)
• United States
11 Jul 09
All fathers never really want to give their little girls away. Seems there always comes a time. Be firm but nice. If you get hate, give kindness. Show him the love you feel for her.
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
yeah i'm sure all fathers in this world always wanna give the best for his daughter and always protect her from bad guy. And i think he did!!!. Unfortunately he think that im bad guy,,^_^. He never accept me to talk,,but i never gave up...i'll try and try until he accept me
• United States
11 Jul 09
My personal opinion. Is to just tell him you are marrying his daughter. He has to grow up and accept you, Its obvious you arent going anywhere. He needs to accept the fact his daughter loves you and my opinion also she needs to say something as well to her father. Not just you. You 2 seem to be very much in love speak to him together have that support.
• Indonesia
12 Jul 09
thanks for the advice, both of us will speak to him and now im still waiting right time to talk. wish me luck my friend.