Are you taken or single?

July 12, 2009 3:18am CST
Also, do you like being taken or single? I'm single and I like it because I feel independent and free. Also, I don't have to get my heart broken. But sometimes I don't like it because it makes me feel lonely.
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@ckyera (17262)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
hi iwinagain! i am taken! i am 5 years married to my husband who's been my 5 years boyfriend before we get married! i like my situation now and i am really happy and satisfied with him...i remember when i am still single, i am not really that happy person coz i feel so lonely, but when i met him, my life has changed, my mom told me that i have become a more cheerful person then and always a happy lady that's full of love and inspiration! being in a relationship is really very nice being in love is a great feeling..but of course we should be ready and strong enough when we face the pains that love sometimes brings...coz its normal for a relationship to have some trials...and that's what will make a relationship even stronger... now that you are still single...well jus enjoy the moment and who knows...the one who will take you is just around...
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Good for you my friend ckyera. I am still waiting for the right man in my life. Somewhere out there I know he will come in my way. Good luck to you!
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
well I'm happy to be single xD i really have no time to have a relationship now because I'm busy in myLotting..hehe jk =P
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Go for it girl! Who knows after few days of your stay here in mylot you'll find your partner in life. If you know the story of my friends here you Cannete imagine how she fall in love with Dj, he he he.
@phesaru (300)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
ohh..really?? their is a lovers here? i was shocked,i thought this site is only for dicussion or commenting their discussion,,i didn't expect that u can find your love here..LOL xD
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@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
This is a big community from all over the world the members here! There are boys and girls of course there could be lovers, no wonder. Start finding or spot your partner
@Browni (16)
• United States
12 Jul 09
I am single and I hate it!
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@sublime03 (1811)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
I am in a relationship and this year will be our 6th year together. We are still going and have no doubts about stopping. It is so much fun to have someone to love especially when they continue to show you how much they love you in big ways or small ways. Nowadays since he started working, he usually gets home late and we hardly talk usually on our way to my office in the mornings. But again, being single may be fun for others some hate it. But do not worry, you will have somebody in the right time.
@kmaram (2535)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Hi there, taken here we have already one cute adorable daughter. And happy to be with them anyway i dont think there is wrong being a single but ofcourse sometimes its lonely right? By the way how young are you? I am glad that you are happy being single but you will be happy if you have someone to accompany you. Goodluck and happy mylotting.
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@iamsolucky (1243)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
I just got married last may this year. I am so happy and would like you to feel the happiness of being in love too. Being single is ok, no problem there but its good to share your love to someone else. Who knows your going to be in love tomorrow and feel the difference of being single and taken. But remember, all you have to do is to love yourself. When you love yourself, you can share the love to anyone. Hurt is always a part of being in a relationship so dont be afraid of it. But no one can measure the happiness it brings to your heart. Happy mylotting and smile always
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
i am absolutely taken.. and i am very happy with my status now.!! can't help it, im in LOVE...
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@surfermac (466)
• India
12 Jul 09
some times i like being single no worries no headaches and no such things but some times i do feel that having a companion is much better but for now i love being single let me enjoy the essence of life
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• Philippines
12 Jul 09
I am not yet taken and I do hope i met someone who will make my heart beat faster. Singles can live happy and as you say lonely. At my present situation I may feel half way happy and halfway lonely. Especially when you are invited to a party and everybody have their own partner you may feel that you are lagging behind, which you may find annoying. being single gives a lot of freedom to explore and develop your careers. But, other cannot seem to grow without a person to inspire them, In my case whether with or without a partner I continue whatever I am doing and never get affected by teasing like when somebody always ask you the reason why you have no partner. Such, as when parents, friends insist you to go on dating with a person you have no feeling. I do no like the idea of being trap in a situation when you have to choose between being spinster or bachelor for the rest of your life. You got to be ready being tease and always compare. But, as i observe having a partner is not a solution to stop the happiness we can get from being single. you need to be happy and act like you are happy without the peer pressure.
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@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
12 Jul 09
Single - single lady
Hi there Iwinagain!I am taken. Happily married for seven years now. I am happy but that's because of my significant other and not just the fact that I am in a relationship. I think that it's not about being single or taken but who you're with and who you're not with. You'll be happy being taken if only you're significant other is treating you right. If not, you're most likely to choose being single. And if you'll have someone who'll treat you like dirt, then you'll be happier as single and free. You remind me of my sister. She was single for a long time and she was happy because she can enjoy going out and flirting as much as she can but like you, there were times that she felt lonely too.
@Gemstar6 (71)
• New Zealand
14 Jul 09
I am 'taken' and I don't even notice, it is fantastic because I am lucky enough to have my best friend. No problems, just hang out. Been together nearly 5 years but it feels like 500, in a good way lol!
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Wow I wish I am now just like you taken and very happy. But I'm still single and happy too but I know to have your own family and partner in life is the most wonderful feeling in your life.
• Italy
1 Aug 09
I am taken and i am quite happy with my this life. Life is complete circle my friend and every part of life have its own enjoyments. when i was single i have enjoyed all the pleasure and now i am enjoying being a family owner. So everything suits with time and phases if some one wants to stay single forever that is not god and after a particular time he will face much depression and loneliness. No heart in this world have get everything he wished so this is a universal truth, you can look around in the world even presidents and most famous celebrities have their heart broken. This also a part of life dont get afraid of something. Enjoy the all phases let me tell you broken heart have its own taste of feelings.
@ericajoyce (1749)
• Philippines
29 Jul 09
Hello. I am single just a few days ago. I do like being single. I feel free and there are no problems that I encounter with my partner because Im single but, like you said there are times that its lonely.
@busky5 (3166)
• Thailand
23 Jul 09
I believe someone not like to be single alike me too.I think it depends on the destiny.I don't search for marry or someone may want to single but someday you may change when you find someone.
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
im taken and im married..im happy with my life now. i cant go out and make dicissions on my own when i was single...my husband is very ok and i have no problems with him.when i was still single i cant go out by myself..they always make dicissions for me even though i dont like it..now im free!and i dont get stress in my life..i love my married life i look beautiful than before..lol!lots of pressure in school,away from temptations..now i just stay at home taking care of my hobby,if i get bored i go out with my siblings and friends!stress free!about love?ohhh..im full of love!and im truely blessed!
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
I am 100% Single,and never try to have a bf..heheheh..
@sjvenden27 (1851)
• United States
18 Jul 09
I am taken.. But I guess I have the best of both worlds kind of.. my other half is on the road for weeks and maybe a month or two at a time.. Yes there are plenty of lonely nights.. but i am happy when he is here... it makes it all worth while.. and well if he is around too long he just starts driving me crazy because I am use to doing things my way.. granted I talk to him on the phone every day a couple times a day.. but still I hang up the phone and do what I go to do here...But one day that may change, if he ever gets out of that truck...
@zearah (5289)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
I am single and I am happy as of now but I dream of being taken someday. The essence of being a woman is to become a wife and a mother. Hope there would be a day I could see the right man for me. I'm bit worried when I grow old and nobody would care for me 'coz I don't have a family of husband and kids. I know how happy the life would be with my own family. God knows our lives and I am waiting what He will give me in the future. Hope I would be strong to face the problem in case I could be lucky to raise my own children and care for my husband. I am just curious girl how you could say that you like to be independent. Yes somehow that's true but if you only tried how happy is to have your own family. My mother always telling me that the greatest gift she had was my father then we as her children. Family is the wonderful relatinship and community you'll ever have in your life.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
15 Jul 09
i have the same thought with you.i select single life,because i must learn why to live depending with myself,i make a ttempt for many times,the life is hard and feel lonely,and i get adpated to this life,i need quite in my life and give me engough time to adapt owned life and heal the scar with my heart,there is nessinary for me to be single,if you feel lonely,you can take your friends to live together,and find yourself whether fit for being single life
@Alize997 (190)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I'm taken and I like it. Its nice having someone that you can go out with, get really close too, and fall in love with. At times though its stressful, because when your in a relationship. Your always having to take the other person in consideration, and you can't do whatever you want.
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 09
Hello iwiagain, After a long distance relationship that took most of my younger time and once heartbroken, I decided being single is no difference from being in a relationship. I enjoyed each and every moment of my single days and yes, sometimes I did feel lonely but it was because I get used of having a companion. Well, I am married now and have no regrets about it though at times, I do miss being single where I only have to think about myself!