Do you like having s(e) x? how long can you go without it?

United States
July 13, 2009 9:42pm CST
well i never had s (e) x. but i don't think i will like it very much. people tell me it hurts. and i don't understand how i would enjoy something that hurts. i'm thinking it might be like baby being push in and out of me. haha sounds too painful alright. so what i want to know is. DO YOU HAVE s (E) x? do you like having it? and how long can you go with out it? and i think i can go forever without it. i was gonna be a nun. but i'm not religious.
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@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
Better to say that make love than make S**, some people make it for fun and Im happy with that... s(e)x is a gift from God, and that is sacred... When you are in that moment of love, you'll feel love not just a pleasure.
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@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
Oops! I mean Im not happy with those making it for fun. Happy earning!
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• Malaysia
14 Jul 09
i don't know. i'm not married yet. as muslims, we're prohibited to make love without married first.
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@macubx (11414)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
its like a pack of pringles, once you have your first chip, its difficult to resist the other chips.. lolz IMO.. well if your busy with your life or you do something better other than this then you probably wont be needing this one in your life..
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@b0naf1de (111)
• United States
14 Jul 09
well if that age in your profile is correct your not really "lost time" if you want to think of it that way. most people would have had their first experience by about 20, some alot sooner and some later. Ya dont have to be worried about that its all up to you its human nature though so the urge will definately increase as a result of hormone or social pressure possibly, if you buy into that kind of crap. But basically you are well on your way you may not even realise how soon and sudden it could happen, especially that you stated your religious but religion can't hold back human nature in my opinion. 99% of them ask for forgiveness right after, hah ;)
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@Rodlkm (123)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 09
I think making love is one of the most beautiful and intimate time one could share with his/her loved one. Without love, it is pure lust and physical. However, if shared in love, it becomes much deeper, emotional and even spiritual. Hurts? I don't think the pain is anything and anywhere compared to giving birth but then again, the little angel in your arms makes it all worth while.
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• Philippines
14 Jul 09
I don't really like the thought of it, but sometimes there is an urge to do it. I can go as long as a 3 years of not having it. I don't think it is necessary and as I grew older the sensation is different. I think the feeling is getting nastier because I can feel some pain when doing it. Being with a man who loves you, I think one should compromise just to make him happy. Don't you think so?
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• United States
14 Jul 09
I like it...a lot...I have only experienced it with 2 men, but both relationships were pretty satisfying in that aspect. The first time was uncomfortable but never painful! I don't think I can go regularly without it, or I might get irritable and frustrated. Sometimes if there is pain, it isn't dampening to pleasure...it helps or adds I guess. It sort of sounds crazy, but I don't know how to explain any better.
@CMTS_87 (1339)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
Hehe! Well I doubt if you can really live without it. But to tell you honestly I still don't have an experience. Hehe! But I hope I will experience it as soon as possible! Happy MyLotting!
@Nir360 (139)
• Israel
14 Jul 09
Well i don't think it should hurt too much, and even if it would hurt at first i don't think it's a bad pain. but i'm not a girl so just as you feel..
@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
14 Jul 09
Sorry forgot to mention. For someone that never experience it, its odd that you have such specific and unique questions. The question i'm referring is that "how long can you last without it". Even if I attempt to tell you 1 week 1 month 1 year, you don't really know if that is long or even the feeling mentally or phyically. You might not really have a cornerstone of what the time really translate as. I will tell you this too. Dont do it unless your ready. Because the questions your asking will attempt you to fall into your curisity. If it hurts anything hurts. Drinking too much, eating cold ice cream too fast, there are lots of things we do and accept the pain or even chills from it. Scarey movies, water rides.... list goes on. But with the subject your referring too much sure your ready because the other questions are more of a physically and mental feeling and for someone that hasn't experienced it, it doesn't really matter for you to know. Godbless
• United States
14 Jul 09
wow thanks for the two responses. they really mean alot to me. and i was saying i don't know how to flag as mature content only been here for a week. and well it wouldn't let me type out the s word (s e x) so i had to space it out.
@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
14 Jul 09
the word you use can be used with other words. I'm not trying to bash you at all. But it is odd that that word is part of mature content and I know for a fact that post isn't flag as that. I'm afraid because I've told lots of my family members to look at this site and they aren't over the age to even understand why people perform. But now that I got it off my chest I can tell you me and my wife, well atleast before we got married use to do it very often. Then two years before we got married we talked about just holding it off before we get married which we did and I can last very long without it. Especially with my full day of plans and work. I get extremely tired and have no real time to get too active about it. Now if the other helps do it and you get to sit back and relax then it would be awesome. godbless please use protection! and if your not religious you can still become a nun. or a monk if you wish. I prefer a monk because they are strong and patient individuals and you can learn about life and the philosophy.
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
hi, oh no, what a discussion, what a topic.. it seems your question is not highly recommended, i hate saying this but me also hate reading nor listening that kind of word. call me naive but i hate it a lot, its a private thing to discuss, nor asking how long can you go.. it's really funny, lol... try to be married, and you will see...!! i'm still 22 but too ignorant about that thing, that's why i hate that word.. a lot of people says it simply not minding people specially kids listening on it.. janebeth.
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• United States
14 Jul 09
Umm.. is this subject okay to post about by mylot standards? Okay.... it might hurt the first time, but it feels good after that. I've had 2 kids, and let me tell you it feels NOTHING like childbirth. I think it's great that you are willing to wait. Too many people rush into it too soon. Sorry, can't answer the rest. I'm really quite bashful about the whole subject.
• United States
14 Jul 09
That is wut I thought too. So I added a comment before I gave comment =). They should have a box for mature content. Not a checkbox to view it. It doesn't never put it under that category automatically because if it did you should be able to type that word out fully.
• United States
14 Jul 09
sorry i tried to type out the word but it wouldn't let me it said change something for mature content. and i got confused and didn't know how to do it. and i thought it was a big question but i thought everyone so open here. i thought we could talk about this as well. thanks for responding everyone!
• United States
14 Jul 09
Are you kidding me? You have got to be a young child or very sheltered person. Is this even appropriate to talk about on mylot?
• United States
14 Jul 09
Yeah and may I step and say you have got to be a total jackass, shut your mouth up before you start to judge someone, you are new on mylot, but have this be your first warning that people will step up to any stupid statements you may make, she is just a girl that values her virginity and lots of things, who the hell are you to judge anyone????
@berrys (864)
• Singapore
14 Jul 09
so what even if she's just a young child? you don't think she has the right to question? its better for her to know how to be safe than to do something she will regret.
• United States
14 Jul 09
thanks guys for sticking up for me!
@loki1982 (780)
• Dallas, Texas
14 Jul 09
I was 24 when I lost my virginity. I was pretty proud I made it that long.