love is 4 loosers???.....i m against it..n u???

@sksrin (111)
India
July 14, 2009 9:14am CST
Hi... evry1 i read it smwhere ..... my first reaction was like wht crap is it.... bt give it a second thought..and u realise..a point in it...Take 4 instance... In History or in present time...Mostly successful guys n girls are nt so lucky in their Love life..or they wont it to be like tht ..who knws ..... Or Few are there who ruins their successful life after falling in LOve.. well i ws just stating a point.. IN MY PERSONAL view... Its a beautiful thing..which inspires u to compete in this BORING life...U always have a will to prove urself to ur love....tht inspires u to be a WINNER...Not a looser at all........................... :-))
6 responses
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
14 Jul 09
I think with or without it, there are other things that could inspire me to be a winner or a loser. But I agree with you 100%. I think it's a beautiful, wonderful thing. I will probably never get over my girlfriend just wanting to livew together, straying with me forever but not not wanting to get married. But I love her and wouldn't want her to dread her wedding day anyway. And I'm someone who went without love for 17 years. Then I met someone. That lsted 3 months. So finding someone who will stay with me forever is extra special. Love is definitly not for losers. But, at the same time, it doesn't mean you are a loser if you never find it. Finding that special someone is som hard to find.
@sksrin (111)
• India
14 Jul 09
Well i wish you get your some1 special very soon..... well you know..the girl will indeed be lucky.. :-)) ..nt evry1 here really love by heart buddy..all the best
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
15 Jul 09
I looked over my response and saw where I was misleading. The one that only lasted three months came before my current one - the one who doesn't want to get married but said she will stay with me forever. We have a house together. So I do have a special someone now.
@sksrin (111)
• India
15 Jul 09
okk..thts really nice ...sorry 4 misunderstanding.... :-)
• India
15 Jul 09
Jo pyar mein doob gaya.......samjhlo vo ussse paar kar gaya,usse samjh gaya,usse jeet gaya............!!! Love is not for loosers....its for the competitors........... According to me,love is beautiful.....its the only thing which can change one.......take for example me.......it makes you know what do you really want in life and for what purpose you are here for........it makes you know life and teaches us that life is not always full oh happiness........sadness is also apart of it..........And love should come from within........and not by loving sum one because he or she loves you or talks to u in a loving manner,i am saying this bcoz i had a frnd of mine who thought so.......! Its a game either win it or never play it.......!!!
@sksrin (111)
• India
15 Jul 09
Some even get retired from the game................. :-))
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• India
15 Jul 09
I noe but you shud nt lose hope.........think that she was not made for u......and the one who is ours is waiting for the ryt tym to enter in our lyf.....!
@trisha27 (3505)
• United States
15 Jul 09
Love in my opinion can't be for losers. Love comes in many different forms. Just not from being with some. Like there is a love from a mother for her child and so on. So for someone to say that love is for losers maybe haven't grasped what love is all about and maybe that person who said love is for losers maybe have experienced pain from someone that they loved but hurt them in return. So not only is love for everyone but its for people that are willing to except it and overlook the past that they have gone through and except whoever decides to come into their life and love them. Now love doesn't ruin what people have accomplished or goals that they have set for their life. That cannot be the root cause unless they're significant other tells them to stop. That is something that they have done on their own. Maybe its choices that they've made and decided to put a hold on things.
@sksrin (111)
• India
15 Jul 09
you made ur point clear with ease............... :-))
@delrene (158)
• Philippines
14 Jul 09
i dont think love is for loosers. some of the successful persons who are not so lucky in love tends to focus on theri careers that's why some of them end up in breaking up. it depends on how you can balance your time between your lover and your career. it depends on us if we'll choose to ruin our career for the sake of our loved one or if we choose to ignore our lover and let the relationship ruin for the success of our careers. :)
@sksrin (111)
• India
14 Jul 09
yaa...buddy i am totally agreeddd
@surfermac (466)
• India
14 Jul 09
i too think being single is best i saw many of my friends ruining their lyf with the word love
@sksrin (111)
• India
14 Jul 09
well buddy thts two sides of coin..bt i really want u to feel it....Love is not alone that ruins u..there are a lot of things tht r ruining us..bt we still are involved in them..Love is no xception.......... Just feel it purely..if u still got rejected..u will nor repent...it hurts ..bt gives u reason to smile in alone ... afterwards.. :-)
• Australia
24 Jul 09
Im for it, i just think it takes time to get used to and dig in, but then when you've found that special someone you notice that you will do anything for them, i mean anything, and you will feel like you have a reason to be on this earth. It makes me all fuzzy inside and i think you will find love too :).