Will you be tired loving when you discover the real bad attitude of your partner

Philippines
July 15, 2009 5:30am CST
I sometime love the woman, i really in love with her that to the extent that i cant live without her in my life. But sometime in our relationship, I discovered the real attitude she had, I really felt bad to know about it,but all I have done was to change my lonely feeling and understand her, by reviewing all the good event that we have in the past. That's why I dont want to be tired of loving her, how about you will you be tired loving someone you really love at the first day, year you met or live with? when you discover the other side of them?
4 responses
• India
16 Jul 09
That will be a kind of litmus test as far as your relationship is concerned . Everybody is attracted by the better side of somebody .Its whether you are ready or not to accept the not so good side and willing to make compromises or sacrifices will determine how serious you are about a particular relationship. Nobody is perfect . Everyone has their own flaws and shortcomings . But it is the willingness to accept one's shortcomings that will determine the strength of your bond.
• United States
16 Jul 09
I know my husband feels this way about me sometimes. I don't know what your exact situation is, but I know for me, I get really stressed sometimes having three kids and a household to take care of. I feel like he doesn't contribute as much as he could. This makes me feel a little bit of resentment towards him. If he would offer a little help every now and then with the kids or the house; I would be a lot less stressed, and have a way better attitude. If you notice your girl is getting in one of her moods; just simply asking her, "what can I do to help you?" may help.
@sujal0211 (224)
• India
15 Jul 09
you are thinking about what is wrong with her.But firstly think what is right with her & you really like her for that.When someone is in love there is nothing like right & wrong in their relationship.There is only one thing between them i.e. love. Try to think how she can change her attitude.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
15 Jul 09
I feel you, I really care about my lady friend, but she has an attitude out of this world! I like it cause it's strong, but then I don't cause it can be a bit nerve wrecking, so stubborn and stuck in what she wants! So I gotcha homie, stick with her though, if it's good, don't let that shake you; love her for who she is, that's just her, just as you expect the same in return, I'm sure you get up under her skin as well! Taripre$