Do you have a really close friend you can trust?

July 16, 2009 8:50am CST
Okay guys do you have a close friend that you can trust and i dont just mean someone you might go shopping with i mean, a friend, a REAL friend that you rely on and can tell them anything and it will be safe and go no further. If you have do you have a special friendship, maybe something happened in both your lives that were simular and since then you have been friends. have your say. Oh and if some thing did happen in both your lives you don't have to tell us. thanks ;-D
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@kevchua (1004)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 09
I don't discriminate friends. To me, they are "the same" in the sense that they are there when I need them and we socialise. For me it's hard to trust anyone including best friends; they could betray you at crucial moments. It has happened to some people, believe it or not, and it hurts real bad. That's why I don't label friends as "good friends" and "best friends" - they're just friends. If I think I can trust them - regardless of our length of friendship - I will.
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@devmitra (274)
• India
16 Jul 09
Helo.I have a friend,who has been a great support to me from my childhood and has stood by me in my right and also my wrongs.Her name is pinki.We are friends from the last 13 years.I can unwrap my feelings to her anytime and she release on me all her tensions. We both are quite different from each other and sometimes I do wonder, how we turned out to be so close friends with each other.Do you have such a friend?
17 Jul 09
Wow you guys are close and i do but my best friend who i can tell things to is a family member of mine we have been through a lot together and we have had the same experiences with girls and so on. Thanks for your response :-)
• Philippines
6 Aug 09
i have so many friends but only have few trusted friends or shall i say bestfriend for life.. we enjoy shopping, dine out, go out of town, watch movie together.. and i also have bestfriend and his a muslim who never failed to extend his help towards me. who always there listening to my stories. who extend his shoulder for me to cry and laugh with. im so happy and proud to have them. and i would say that they are one of my treasure that no one can take away from me.. i like the kind of bond we have. a total friendship..
@wolfie34 (26820)
• United Kingdom
17 Jul 09
Yes I do, and I am very fortunate to have such a wonderful friend who I would ultimately trust with my life, you see he was party to me escaping my ex! He knew my ex and yet he kept my plans secret and never breathed a word of what I was doing, and that to me is true loyalty which is what friendship is all about. He could have been put in a difficult situation but he never said a thing and always backed me up 100% I couldn't ask for a more supportive, understanding friend who actually knows me better than I know myself. Trust is important to me and important in any relationship regardless of what the relationship is, family, friend, partner etc... He is like a brother to me and I know that if anything is troubling me no matter what it is I can confide in him and I know it will never ever go any further, that to me is ideal friendship and a half!
• India
17 Jul 09
getting real true n best friend is very hard..one shld be lucky for dat!! i have no best friend till now n no 1 dint even understand me till now
@Sarithra (19)
• India
17 Jul 09
well guys i have really made some good friends whom i can trust and rely on.they have always supported me in my hardships and in my joys & i always feel its good to make friends coz we can't share all our thoughts to our parents...
• India
17 Jul 09
yah i trust sumon bt he lied to me
@cncoke (439)
• China
17 Jul 09
Yes,I have a good friend in my middle school.We study together we eat together we shopping together.When I have some troubles she always warmly help me ,and so do I.We get in touch with eachother untill now.
• Jamaica
17 Jul 09
I think everyone has at least ONE or usually a circle of close friends with whom they can just relax and express their feelings! I personally have about 10 such CLOSE friends who I can release my tensions on! :) Without such friends, life would be such a chore! If you don't have such friends I advise you try to make some, as it would make the quality of your life THAT much better! Happy myLotting! :)
@busky5 (3166)
• Thailand
17 Jul 09
I have my spouse to be my best friend,i can tell him all stories.Without him, i don't have anybody really trust.If you don't have, why you don't advice to your parents.I think my parents can trust.
@julbau18 (273)
• Philippines
17 Jul 09
Yes I have a very close friend that I can say we're like a sister. Since we we're young we had been together until now that we've both having a family our communication is still alive. If we had problems and happy moments in our life we always talk about it and shared to each other. It is really nice feeling that you had a bestfriend since childhood that knows you well.
@FFFrocks (306)
• Canada
16 Jul 09
I met my closest friend a few years ago through work. I am a quirky person and she is to. We just 'got' eachother. Shared the same quirks, had the same sense of humor, relaxed views on life..... Several months after we met she went through a very tragic life altering experience and I stood by her every step of the way. Ever since then we've been as close as can be.
@joxxxter (38)
• Latvia
16 Jul 09
I actually have a few :) not a lot cause a good friend is hard to find, a year ago I still thought I will never find true friends, but now the people that I could call someone I know have become really close to me. And as I live on I see, that friends are something that is impossible to live without...