What makes a relationship fail?

India
July 16, 2009 10:59am CST
There should be some reasons for every break up of relationship.There could be one or more reasons for people to break up. Infidelity personality differences education status differences financial status differences nagging bad habits beating too suspicious bad manners differences in religion, culture etc......
5 responses
@roberten (3131)
• United States
16 Jul 09
Noncommunication and self-centeredness are the main reasons relationships fail. If you do not communicate you leave your partner's mind to fill in the blanks whe they are insecure or unsure of your relationship. Self-centerness exterminates love; flat squeezes the life out of it. When you combine both together, poof, your relationship is don!
• India
16 Jul 09
Yes, non communication often leads to separation as you have rightly pointed out roberten.
@checkmail (2042)
• India
16 Jul 09
Hello vijayanths this is checkmail and yes there are many reasons for failure in relationship.But according to me the most of the reasons are understandings, old enemy, old friend, improvement, recession and etc cause us to break our reationship with our good ones.Sometimes if any iof the two doesn't want to listen to the another one, it broles the relationship.
• India
16 Jul 09
checkmail, you have given a good response. I agree with most of the points.
@nigarish (70)
• India
16 Jul 09
hi sir...relationship especially love relations can be defined as "two peoples who likes each other,loves the company of each other,feels the happiness of each other,shares the pain of each other,lies inside of each other,and fell bad if some one says bad to any one of them just likes anyone has said something bad to him/her could be called as a relationship"...the answer to your question is very simple....if any above things lacks at any point of time then they both start losing interest in each other...and the relation will get break.....and the above things which you have mention are just simple excuses for the breakup!!!!!!the truth can be lied be lied because truth is truth....its just the way you interact things!!!
• India
16 Jul 09
Oh, thanks you nigarish for your well researched discussion. I do agree with you on certain points.thanks for your response.
• United States
16 Jul 09
I have been thinking a lot about this and yes these things can and will break up a relationship. I guess this is what a person must decide. Do I love this person? Can I accept them the way they are? Could I change some things about myself? I think that all these things are imporant things to think about before ending a relationship. Take care and thanks for sharing this. Happy mylotting to you.
• India
16 Jul 09
Yes, it is really nice to share such things with our mylotters. thanks for your response momtrying2makeit.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
16 Jul 09
All of the above my friend can be a caused of it...case to case bsis. in my case,it's infidelity...and i don't want to elaborate more coz the word itself defines what i mean.
• India
16 Jul 09
I understand you Jaiho. I can feel your pains as well. may God will bless you with a new life full of joy and peace.