Who do you trust?

@akuler (3539)
Malaysia
July 16, 2009 2:27pm CST
If you have a problem or some secret to tell, with whom you want to share with. It is your parent, your boyfriend or girlfriend, your friend or anyone else? What do you believe them?
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5 responses
@dolphin2406 (1227)
• Poland
2 Aug 09
Hi, that depends on the secret. Usually I tell my boyfriend and my best friend only. Then I have another good friend whom I sometimes also share things with but as I said it depends on the case. My parents are excluded from this I only talk to them about usual things, nothing more. I don't trust many people especially at work since now we have some people who have been back stabbing others and making it appear as if it was a new person so better a word less.
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
Hi dolphin2406, I only share a so-so secret with my colleagues at work. I never trust them 100% especially if that secret might trow me out from the office. You might been his/her friend today but tomorrow, nobody knows. That secret that I really didn't want to share, I kept it myself. Trust no one but yourself. Previously I always share it with my ex-girlfriends. She is the only one that I can trust 99%.
• Poland
2 Aug 09
yes it's hard to find people who you can trust. But there needs to be a person to share with in your life.
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
I am looking for it. I am looking for "share my problem" girlfriend. But I don't think I could find someone like her. Really miss her.
@dlr297 (5418)
• United States
11 Aug 09
I can trust my husband with any secret, or problem that i have. I know that he would never betray me. My Mom is another person that i could trust with anything.
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 09
Hi dlr, It is easier to trust our spouse. And it is not good to hide something from them. They will be with us for a long time in our live. Some secret might bring us trouble with him/her. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
@dlr297 (5418)
• United States
15 Aug 09
You are so right, Trust in a relationship is very important, and it is one of the things that will help it become a long and happy one.
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• United States
16 Jul 09
I don't know that is a hard question for me because there are very few people in my life that I truly trust..I can count them on one hand. I would say my husband, my mother and my friend Mandy are the only three that I truly trust and I trust them in that order. And also there are different things that I can can trust with different people. Something that I may trust my husband knowing, I may not tell my mother or if I trust my friend Mandy with a secret that I may not trust my mother with. My husband is by far that one I trust the absolute most, I tell him everything..we have always been like that and there are times when I tell him stuff that he wishes i wouldn't LOL... I think that you are lucky in life if you have one true best friend that you can trust your life or close to your life with...
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 09
Hi froggieslover, I agree with you that some secret only can be share with certain people. I can hardly trust anyone but myself for certain issues. But, if I have some secret that I think I can share, I will only share it with my most trusted friend. I never share my secret with my parent . Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
• United States
31 Jul 09
Thanks for best response :)
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• United States
2 Aug 09
Hmm....*pondering for a moment* Well, it certainly woudln't be my parents, as i have never been very close with them in that way and have never been open about sharing secrets or my problms with them. My boyfriend probably get to hear more than he wants to about my problems, and i have shared many secrets with him, but i think i can honestly say, the one person who knows pretty much everything about me, and who i can go to with any problem or secret and know that the information i share with him will be kept safe, is my friend Josh. He is just so easy to talk to, is a wonderufl listener, and also gives excelent advice most times. Even though we don't live near eachother anymore, he is still the first person i want to see or talk to whenevr i am trying to deal with something or have somethign i need to get off my chest that i don't feel i can share with anyone else.
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 09
Hi fruitcakeliz, Most of us didn't trust our parent enough. Even they are the one who will be the first to lend their hand if we have a problem. So, you trust your best friends more then your boyfriend and parents. It is very rare. But sometimes when we are closed enough to someone, we tend to tell him/her everything and become our adviser. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
@Jennyleen (249)
2 Aug 09
Nah I keep My secret on my own... but if my secret is not so confidential :p i tell it to my close friend.. but if its really a big secret lolx i keep it on my self..
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@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
Hi Jennyleen, I think we share the same idea. Secret is best if we keep it as a secret. Nobody know what would happen tomorrow, so the safes way is tell no one about it. Since I break up with my ex-girlfriend, I can't find someone who I can trust like I trust her.