How would you feel when your fave aunt dies?

@jhenn22 (1243)
Philippines
July 17, 2009 6:48pm CST
I am down when i heard my fave aunt died. I didn't not expect her sudden death, no one ever expected it because she was so strong and looks healthy. I don't even see her for 2 months because i am away from them due to my work. I never thought the last time we saw each was be our last meeting and i don't even have a chance to tell her that i love her and she is my fave aunt in my father side. The best thing i like on her is that she is thoughtful person. She is loving mother, sister and an aunt. She always gives compliment on me everytime we see each other. She always calls me in my childhood nickname which is no longer used by my family because they say i am old enough for that nick but my aunt continue to call me that way. I really missed her. I can't wait to go home to be on her wake. I am sure this coming christmas would be a different christmas to us..
2 responses
@ShibbyKid (279)
• United States
18 Jul 09
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Sudden deaths hurt us all, the best thing we can do is remember the good times that we have had with that person and keep them safe and warm in our heart. Your aunt sounds like a good person, and it seems you two were close. Try writing her letters, i know she can not get them or reply but it helps. That way you will tell her what you have always wanted to tell her and feel that she has read them. I am sure she is now watching over you and taking care of you.
@jhenn22 (1243)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
Thanks for the comment and advice. I did a letter for her and i will bring it in her wake this saturday and yes its really help me to say things i want to say to her. I put there all the memories we had. And thankful that she's my aunt and how happy and lucky to experience her care and love like what she showed to her children. Thank you and have a nice day!
• United States
18 Jul 09
(: I'm glad i can help. I know how hard it is to lose someone you are close to. The letter really helped me get over a few family deaths myself. Memories are good to keep in your heart as well as letters. Good call on that.(: Get better.
@Shery32 (424)
• Saudi Arabia
18 Jul 09
Hi, This happened to me, :( and I felt so bad as I did not have a chance to see her for sometimes before she passed away and I miss her too. I hope you feel better soon as time goes by although I'm sure it would never be the same