Loving more than one

@Capsicum (1444)
United States
July 19, 2009 5:04am CST
Do you think it is possible to love 2 men/women in different ways ? If so why ,if not why? And what would you do if faced with the problem yourself.
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
If 2 women consisting of my mom and my future spouse, I'd say yes, it's possible.. But if 2 of the same love like in relationship wise, I know I can't. I know some people can love 2 women or 2 men and etc.. but I can't. I love the 'stick to one' saying..
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
20 Jul 09
As someone said above its trust ,I know there is no other man besides the one ,I am with at this time.Just seems people take marriage to casual these days,lets just hope my man never gets the urge.
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@zed_k4 (17627)
• Singapore
20 Jul 09
Yup2x.. trust is a tangible thing, It's easily uttered but not that easy to fulfill.. Hope that we will be able to fulfill trusts and that our love ones will fulfill theirs. Happy mylotting..
@asweetie (1188)
• India
30 Sep 09
hi capsicum, a woman has so many roles to play in this world, as a lover as a mother , wife, daughter and a sister. So in every role she loves the men as her husband or bf when wife , her sons as mother, her father as daughter and her brothers as sister. So yes i too love so many guys in differnt ways but if you are looking for an answer as to love for your beloved then no I would not even think about second guy if and when i go in relationship. It would be cheating even if think romantically about any other guy than my man. It is unthinkable and he may be good or bad, he would be my man and i would be happy with him and if not then find happiness in him. Only then my house would be home and love a great love.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
9 Oct 09
Thanks for the response asweetie,You are very right in what you say about loving men different.I would never risk loosing my hubby of 25 years ,for a cheap fling that ,I know.But in the same respect,I love others to just not in the same way certainly not physically or emotionally. I have a big heart for those in distress ,or am I just a sucker.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
i think it is very unfair to love another man when you still into relationship.and you a married already the laws will hunt you and charges you for adultery.if i have encounter these in my life i wont entertain any other guy beside my bf.because respect is very important in a relationship.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
17 Sep 09
Serene and real - Just as a marriage,the fun and realism of this never stops .It just gets stronger as time goes by. Glad I have time to shine ,for this man I married. Beauty and love for thing can be meshed.
I am with you on this one. I have been in a monogamous relationship since high school,I am now 43.I would never take any jeopardizing risks to ruin the best thing that has ever happened to me.Thanks for stopping.
• Pakistan
19 Jul 09
Well, interesting question but the answers would vary from person to person. I don't think its possible for me to love two men at the same time. actually not in a life time. that's may be because i'm extremely devoted when it comes to loving my man. i'll go far length to make him happy. may be i've found true love and never got bored of it even for a second. So can't even think of loving someone else.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
20 Jul 09
Love could never be boring. There is always something to make you love, a little more each day.I have been married since high school 25 years and not bored yet. Thanks
• Philippines
19 Jul 09
Hey there Capsicum!Ü I think that it's possible to love two persons. It can be a family member or a boyfriend. These two persons are very important in our lives. You didn't really cleared what kind of love you're talking about here. So i guess it's possible. But when it comes to love with a boy/girlfriend i think i can not love two persons at the same time. Why? Because you already ruined the TRUST, LOYALTY, FAITHFULNESS in your relationship. SO THAT'S WHAT I THINK.Ü
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
20 Jul 09
TRUST, LOYALTY, FAITHFULNESS the most important thing a person can ask for.Thanks
@busky5 (3166)
• Thailand
19 Jul 09
I feel headache instead who have this habits.You can do that if it make you happy.For me i don't think this situation make me happy.It is possible happened but i will select only one.
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
20 Jul 09
Yes one is enough for anyone . Thanks