Who will be an ideal wife/ husband according to you?

India
July 20, 2009 12:49pm CST
Before marriage we all have dreams and we have lots of expectations about our would be partners.But in real life when we come across a person worth half our dreams we fall for them. The age is like that. So mylotters, who will be an ideal husband or ideal wife according to you?
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8 responses
• India
20 Jul 09
It is not one sided taught which can be given an exact answer like as we do in our studies or other related aspects, it needs time and space both to know who is ideal either husband or wife. but here the thinking that clash is wife thinks my husband is ideal, husband thinks my wife is ideal as she takes a lots n lots care for me. So in this manner both give equal status to each other but both do not express it, According to me my wife will be ideal to me as she is the one with whom i am totally free to discuss all my taughts joys and sorrows. At the same time she might be thinking what i am thinking that is my husband is ideal to me. This keep our bond intact. Kindly comment HAPPY MYLOTTING
• India
20 Jul 09
You both seem to make a sweet and nice couple. Best wishes to remain the same for ever.
• India
21 Jul 09
Thanks a lot. wish you the same.
@shav9292 (928)
• India
20 Jul 09
for me ideal wife is one who looks after her parents in law as her own.a woman who can do that can live up to any expectations.
• India
20 Jul 09
Yes, that is a valid point shav.
@rlaknar (616)
• India
20 Jul 09
I would like to have a wife who really and completely understands me and let me understand her fully.
• India
20 Jul 09
simple, sweet and meaningful.
• Philippines
25 Jul 09
My ideal husband is responsible like me. I hope he love his family so much too because he can love his nuclear family if he is very loving. I hope he respect me with my decisions and allow me to grow. I wish he supports me of my plans. I want a husband who will give me stability and security and of course I have to find happiness in him. I hope he have a better plans for me and our future, he have to be a great provider. I hope he is a fighter like me and very optimistic.
@kaguvkov (1041)
• Philippines
23 Jul 09
For me an ideal wife is someone who will love me, understand me, care for me, and has an open heart and open mind to all the things I have done in the past. It was a very difficult person to find but if you really believe in destiny you will surely fall in love to those whom you think that is perfect and too be your ideal wife.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
22 Jul 09
I don't demanded too much and also am of the nature that, i can accept if there are some faults or u may say if i feel something lacking in my life, ac no man is perfect, but if u fall in love with a person, then you can find goodness in him/her, and now this question is very late for me to ask, as i have already got married, so what i have got is the decision of God, and i am happy for it...
@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
20 Jul 09
I have learned over time that there is one word that you use here that just doesn't fit reality. That word is "ideal". *smile* I am now married for the third time and loved each of them but even though I thought in the beginning they would be my ideal I have learned there is no such thing. If you have a partner that fits most of what you would consider ideal then I believe you have the right person. But given the fact she is human and my ideal is fantasy it would be almost impossible for her to meet it. But it is close enough.
• United States
20 Jul 09
hey there and happy day to ya:) i have put alot of thought into this in my 36 years of life..and i have dated many different kinds of men..and have yet to find what i have been looking for..maybe thats why none of them are lasting..im not getting what i need..and this is what i look for,a nice man with great manners..like opening doors for me and other people..is huge bonus for me..i love that really..and he needs to have agreta sense of humor..i love life and love tolaugh and make others laugh and i need soemoen that isnt serious all the time..thats just boring to me..he needs to accept my son of course..or GOODBYE YOU ARE TEH WEAKEST LINK!!! lol lol!!someone that doesnt lie or cheat..im soo sick of ppl like that..if ur not happy leave dont keep me along for the ride..and someone to love me for who i am and never want me to change myself mentally.physically..as i dont ever expect anyone to do anyways..i fell in love with them for that reason..now why the hell would i want that? thats why i fell in love with them the first place!and lastly someone to walk WITH me in life.Not in front or behind..