If you had not got married or had children...

@jugsjugs (13047)
July 25, 2009 8:18am CST
would you still be with the person you are with?
4 responses
@Wizzywig (7860)
25 Jul 09
My first thought was 'no' but I suppose things would be different if I hadn't done both so I couldn't be sure... With hindsight, there are probably a lot of things I would have done differently but I certainly wouldn't want to be without my sons - though, of course, if I hadn't ever had them, I wouldn't know what I was missing.
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• Thailand
25 Jul 09
When too people who love each other are meant to be together, it really does not matter whether they get married or not. Whether they have children or not. What matter is if after they learn what they do not like about each other they still can keep on with the relationship. We all have good qualities and bad qualities. But some times the bad qualities are far more stronger than the good ones. However, if in the end of the day the person you like makes you happy. As long as you feel happy, you put aside everything and hold on to a life time with that person.
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@Danny08 (398)
• Canada
25 Jul 09
Depends on my partner....if things are not going right, better to part ways...arguments, fights etc will have an impact on kids as well. I don't have kids....if I do...I will keep the kids.....no matter what...even if I have to give away everything I got....house, car, bank balance...and keep the kids...and start life all over again....this time, I live for my kids.
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• United States
25 Jul 09
I think i would probably be with my husband if we hadnt gotten married. I was pregnant with an ex when my husband and i met, and he loves my daughter like she was his own, and we also have a child of our own on the way. I love that man with everything i have, and i dont think children changed that any. Hes overseas in afghanistan right now, and we still have our ups and our downs, but i think everyone does. I cant imagine myself without him, so i think either way we would still be together, unless he got sick of me and kicked me to the curb or something, which i hope he wouldnt do, haha.
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