do all friends of my mylot friends are not responding why?

@yugasini (12816)
Anantapur, India
July 27, 2009 1:51pm CST
hi mylot friends, i have noticed that i have more than 150 friends in mylot,i have further noticed that some friends are posted some discussions long back and they are not active for all these days why,how to reach a message to all of MY mylot friends, I wish that all MY mylot friends participate in discussions,who have not done the discussions for all these days,how it is friends?
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5 responses
@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
27 Jul 09
Hi yugasini, I, as one of your friends here, would like to stress that it is not who started the discussion that I would give a response but what topics he/she bring would make me do it. You and I might have a different interest. Since I only response to the discussion that I believe I can contribute something so not all my friends discussion wouldn't get my response. That also same when I started a discussion, I can't force my friends to response to it. You can't push people to give you a comment and if you do so, you might get the nonsense response or better then nothing response. It is matters of choice if someone want to give a response or not. And as a friend, we should understand it and respect our friends decision. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
29 Jul 09
hi akuler, thanks for the response and long description,i am saying that,they may be busy with their work,and you may be right have a nice day
@akuler (3539)
• Malaysia
29 Jul 09
Hi yugasini, I am sooooooooooo sorry for that misunderstanding. May be some of them are busy with their other commitment. Or maybe their computer got problem like mine yesterday. I also have a friend on my list that I never see again. Just after accepting their friend request, they disappear.
@glesil_00 (1147)
• Philippines
29 Jul 09
I am that way too. I do not respond because he/she is my friend but i am responding because i am interested in the discussion or topic being given. It doesn't mean that if we have many friends we are expecting them to respond to all our message and our post and comments. We have our independent decision and yes you are right, understand and do not expect much.
@dawnald (84132)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Aug 09
Unfortunately, if they do not get e-mail notices, you cannot reach them at all unless they log on. Maybe they are busy with other things in their lives and at least some of them will come back!
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
4 Aug 09
hi dawnald, thanks for the response, now a days,i am not waiting for email notices,directly iam going in to mylot and verifify what i require,have a nice day
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@dawnald (84132)
• Shingle Springs, California
4 Aug 09
I do that too. Or at least I try to...
@Canellita (12058)
• United States
30 Jul 09
If your friends have email alerts set to receive a notice when you start a new discussion they will more than likely respond. If not, they may not see your new discussion. It takes a lot of time to visit everyone's discussions. If I were you I would not worry so much about "old" friends but visit new discussions to make new friends. You want to find people who are most active and who will reciprocate when you respond to them.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
31 Jul 09
hi canellita, thanks for the response,that is not my intention every body should give response to my discussions,i have not find some my mylot friends are replying any discussions, so that i have raised the question...have a nice day
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@Canellita (12058)
• United States
4 Aug 09
I have noticed that some myLotters only start discussions and do not comment on the responses. I suppose some people are only concerned with the number by their name and starting discussions or maybe they are busy on other sites.
@pyarebhai (200)
• India
29 Jul 09
Hi myLot friend, There is no doubt, that there are more than 150 friend in myLot, they may be having their own responsibilities, their own interest, they may be otherwise active in some other fields, having discusssions in some other interested discussions, which we may not be aware of. when every they have a little chance of visiting your discussion, they may certainly take time to participate in the given discussion, so have kind out look. your discussion may be answerd some other time. Seasons greetings and all the best wishes to you all.
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
30 Jul 09
hi mohiddin basha, thanks for the response, i am not asking all should answer my discussion,i have not seen any discussion of them for all these days...have a nice day
@PeacefulWmn9 (10424)
• United States
29 Jul 09
I cannot speak for others, but for myself, I went 10 days with no posting or responding because my computer was in the repair shop. I do always check the area of discussions started by friends and try to respond to each one :) Karen
@yugasini (12816)
• Anantapur, India
30 Jul 09
hi karen, it is difficulty to me without net,because i must visit at least once a day at net due to my work with net,so that i visit netcafe for net...have a nice day