do all friends of my mylot friends are not responding why?
July 27, 2009 1:51pm CST
hi mylot friends, i have noticed that i have more than 150 friends in mylot,i have further noticed that some friends are posted some discussions long back and they are not active for all these days why,how to reach a message to all of MY mylot friends, I wish that all MY mylot friends participate in discussions,who have not done the discussions for all these days,how it is friends?
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27 Jul 09
Hi yugasini, I, as one of your friends here, would like to stress that it is not who started the discussion that I would give a response but what topics he/she bring would make me do it. You and I might have a different interest. Since I only response to the discussion that I believe I can contribute something so not all my friends discussion wouldn't get my response. That also same when I started a discussion, I can't force my friends to response to it. You can't push people to give you a comment and if you do so, you might get the nonsense response or better then nothing response. It is matters of choice if someone want to give a response or not. And as a friend, we should understand it and respect our friends decision. Happy mylotting and have a nice day.
29 Jul 09
Hi yugasini, I am sooooooooooo sorry for that misunderstanding. May be some of them are busy with their other commitment. Or maybe their computer got problem like mine yesterday. I also have a friend on my list that I never see again. Just after accepting their friend request, they disappear.
29 Jul 09
I am that way too. I do not respond because he/she is my friend but i am responding because i am interested in the discussion or topic being given. It doesn't mean that if we have many friends we are expecting them to respond to all our message and our post and comments. We have our independent decision and yes you are right, understand and do not expect much.
• United States
30 Jul 09
If your friends have email alerts set to receive a notice when you start a new discussion they will more than likely respond. If not, they may not see your new discussion. It takes a lot of time to visit everyone's discussions. If I were you I would not worry so much about "old" friends but visit new discussions to make new friends. You want to find people who are most active and who will reciprocate when you respond to them.
• Anantapur, India
31 Jul 09
hi canellita, thanks for the response,that is not my intention every body should give response to my discussions,i have not find some my mylot friends are replying any discussions, so that i have raised the question...have a nice day
29 Jul 09
Hi myLot friend, There is no doubt, that there are more than 150 friend in myLot, they may be having their own responsibilities, their own interest, they may be otherwise active in some other fields, having discusssions in some other interested discussions, which we may not be aware of. when every they have a little chance of visiting your discussion, they may certainly take time to participate in the given discussion, so have kind out look. your discussion may be answerd some other time. Seasons greetings and all the best wishes to you all.