how do you get over a friend that you are so in love with

Philippines
July 27, 2009 9:14pm CST
Ive been so in love with a close guy friend of mine for almost 3 years...just last year he fell in love with one of my gal friends and they went on..i was in pain but i didn't show it...I went away so that i won't see them and now im bak. until now i still have some butterflies in my stomach whenever i see him...and i still feel some kind of pain when i see them together...
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@sid556 (31003)
• United States
28 Jul 09
They are still together? Since it is a friend of yours, I would suggest that you just keep it to yourself and look elsewhere for love. There are a zillion guys out there. You really don't want your friend's man. It would no doubt ruin the friendship. If you care about your friendship with the girl, I'd just back off from that idea. Sounds as if you have a huge crush. maybe you should give yourself some space from these two and look to meet other people. From what you said, this one seems off limits.
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
i fell in love with the guy first and my friend(his girlfriend now) knows that i love him...she didn't tell me that she like him too...i was so surprised when i learned that they went together already...i backed off to stop myself from hurting more..i do not have plans to steal him because i know that he loves her...
@sid556 (31003)
• United States
28 Jul 09
Ouch! That is sad. I'm sorry this happened to you.
@snowy22315 (54337)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I think it is time to move on to a new relationship. There is nothing like a new love to make you forget an old one. Gettign interested in someone else will really help you move on from this relationship. It is something you need to do at this point. I wish you luck with this.
• Philippines
28 Jul 09
thanks for that..i have a few crushes at work but that's it..nobody has still catched my attention like my guy friend...maybe im too idealistic...