love after or before married
By TREASURE9899
@TREASURE9899 (31)
Brunei Darussalam
July 28, 2009 8:37am CST
Hi...
I saw my parents' love from time to time is getting bigger and bigger. It shows not that they were hugging, kissing or holding hand in front of the tv. But the environment while seating besides them made me think of love. I know for long time already that they built up their love after married. Only seeing for few months then they declared to be husband and wife. They did not call it other as Love, Sweety, Honey...Never I heard of that..My father would call my mom by her name so do My mom.The sincerity of loving each other reflects through their life. But can't tell the way, its just showing..How amazing. I wish to have their kind of love, heart and miss. This explained that Love is not necessary before getting married. It shall rise and shine after it. How do you explain?
2 responses
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
28 Jul 09
To me I think love does need to grow but when you love someone in the way you are talking about I feel you know from the start and it gets better and better. For me there will always be ups and downs but either way I still love always as my text signature states on my cell phone. Take care and happy mylotting to you. 
@ShibbyKid (279)
• United States
28 Jul 09
I think love develops more over time. It could be love at first sight or "I hate you, i can not live with you". Either way, you love the person and want them to be in your life. There is love before marriage, but not as mush as after. I feel the love with my boyfriend grows more each second passing us by. I do not think people can tell we love each other and feel it like you can with your parents just yet because my mom obviously does not see why i go through so much trouble for him. I try to tell her, but she needs to figure it out on her own. I am willing to go through so many changes for him and if it what i have to do, i will do it with no hesitating. I have got him by my side and that is all i will ever need. Figuratively speaking of course, but it is just how i feel.
