True Friends Are Hard to Come By

United States
July 31, 2009 10:25pm CST
Truth: I just realized I don't have many guy friends. I believe this is due to a variety of reasons. Firstly, guys who I thought were my friends ended up only being friends with me in hopes of getting with me. Once I set them in their place and their dream is crushed they usually turn on me and say nasty things behind my back due to their bruised ego. Either they do that or just completely stop talking to me, which has happened quite a bit. I realized that there are cases of men who will stick around simply because they still have hope they can get with me some day. I mean c'mon boy can't you see I'm out of your league? Mean I know, but true. Then there are those who have gotten with me and stay in touch thinking they have a chance at getting seconds, which I don't mind if they are someone I am still attracted to and were good in the bedroom. But alas, I've come to realize that it is hard for a pretty girl to have good sincere don't want to get in your pants male friends nowadays. P.S. I would also like to add to this note that not only do I have a difficult time finding true guy friends, but I also have a hard time maintaining friendships with women, not as often as with men but still happens. Many women are jealous of me due to the fact that the guy they like wants me, their boyfriend wants me, and in some rare cases even their girlfriend wants me. This has happened quite a bit in the past couple of years and I have no control over it. Well I am sorry girls. What do you want me to do? Get uglier? Not really possible unless I got my face mauled off by a bear, and I bet you would secretly love that wouldn't you? Sigh, It's not always easy being beautiful.. . Vain sounding? Maybe. But I speak the truth.
1 response
• United States
1 Aug 09
I have that problem with guys and girls as well. I only talk to about 3 or 4 that I was friends with in highschool. Only one that is my best friend of all time and the other I didn't go to school with. Anyways. We get jealous of each other at times because one can do things at time that the other can't. I've had a hard time keeping friendships because most women have a hard time dealing with the fact that my life is so complicated with me having a 4 year old and no father. So they don't like to deal with that issue so they avoid me. Good luck and Happy MyLotting.
• Canada
30 Oct 10
I'm a nice Asia business man living Edmonton, Canada, I have the same feeling with you, where are you? Hope to get your reply and everything will be nice for you!!