When a friend of you will betray your trust, what you will do?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
August 2, 2009 2:01am CST
If somebody who say that is your friend, like to talk here...talk there, talk everywhere, and you can t trust in him any more, what you will do? Are people who don t know what loiality mean? When he come to you and say about somebody else that don t trust, and you give him advices, and that you see that he make same thing in other part too...you will call him friend again?Trust in him again? i don t think so...
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@lilaclady (28277)
• Australia
2 Aug 09
No once a friend betrays me I back off from the friendship, they will suddenly become an aquaintance, it is sad when a freind does this sort of thing but it happens to most of us at times, people are not very loyal these days.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Hi, you are right, people are not very loyal those days, but i think that iof somebody is not loyal, will receive same coin back...you know Fontaine fables? The crow who open his mouth and lose the cheede just because fox know to fulish him...maybe this unloyal friends deserve
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@sarojInc (570)
• India
2 Aug 09
I felt the world is like 'when we laugh ,the world laughs with us .When we cry the world laughs even lauder.
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• Indonesia
2 Aug 09
Actually, I don't share many private information with my friend, even my best friend.. If I found her do something like that, first I will ask her about the truth and if it's true, I will stop believe in her and not talk too deep anymore to her but I will stay polite to her and only talk as needed or answer if she ask me, but not more than that..
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Maybe this is the best solution, to stay away with this kind of people...and i wonder how many people who are not faithful feel guilty when read a topic like this...
@mysdianait (64016)
• Italy
2 Aug 09
Many years ago a friend betrayed the trust I had in them and that caused me to doubt anyone else for years to follow I broke that friendship, which could no longer be defined as such. Without trust no friendship can exist. Now my faith has been restored and the few friends I trust with personal information are living up to the trust that I have placed with them
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Hi, seems that we must to have bad experience to know who are our real friends and who are not...you know here we say...with b..d in 2 boats..i don t know if is corect, but idea is that who want to be as a postman, never gain many friends...
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@mysdianait (64016)
• Italy
2 Aug 09
Certainly not a lot of real friends.
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@cwong77 (2011)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 09
ignore this person, just stay away.. I won't damage the relationship, but still won't be in contact as friends.. more of acquaintance since I want to avoid being his / her topic of chat the next time he / she with other friends.. the lesser he / she knows me, the lesser topic he / she has..
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
Is a good advice for somebody who trust in people, to stay away from unloyal persons...
@sarojInc (570)
• India
2 Aug 09
It hurts .but it also means a new way of looking at the world.Yes its not possible to trust the the friend to the same extent.and I'll become extra cautious with him. thanks for asking such wonderful question. happy mylotting
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
2 Aug 09
We say here that every bad experience is a step in life...so, next time somebody must to be cautious, people are so different, and our mistake is that we judge others as we judge our self.
• United States
3 Aug 09
Icesmile, I think that I would no longer have that friend.
• Canada
3 Aug 09
If a friend of mine betrays my trust, then that person is no longer a friend. How can I keep a friend that I can not trust?