What do you do if someone mistakes your post and gives you negative rating?

@Wismay (2037)
India
August 2, 2009 4:41am CST
Hi friends! Just today, I created a discussion and a lady, without understanding the meaning and what it meant to convey, commented something. And not just that, she also rated me negatively! I come to know about it because I saw two points decrease in my rating instantly. Why some people think only they understand rules better than anyone else? And are very eager to mark someone negative? This is my first bad experience on MyLot. Would like to hear what you think. Happy Mylotting!
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13 responses
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
3 Aug 09
I'm sorry you've gotten a negative rating. Hope you won't experience this again. But I'm curious to know why you are so sure it is because of this lady's action. As you know, we make all kinds of postings all over the place in different discussions. Anyone can rate you on any of your posts, and you cannot see what has been rated of your posts. So how is it that you are so sure this lady has rated you negatively, and that rating and not others have contributed to a decrease in your rating? For me, I usually don't rate anyone negatively. If I do not have any positive rating to give someone, then I don't rate it. I think many people here adopt this practice, because they also don't like others to rate them negatively.
@lexus54 (3572)
• Singapore
3 Aug 09
Ok, sure, I respect your wish not to discuss this further. I of course wish that you will not get anymore negative ratings for your posts.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
3 Aug 09
It was my observation, and I am sure. I don't want to discuss about it now please. Whatever happened, happened for the best and I did learn how to manage such things next time. Yes I too never rated anyone negatively and usually I try to rate the good responses positively otherwise I leave it just like that. Happy mylotting!
@dolphin2406 (1224)
• Poland
2 Aug 09
Hi, I never took notice of this, now I will start checking. But my rating has been the same for some time now so I don't know what that means. maybe that no one rated me positively or negatively for all this time?! From mylot FAQs I saw that Rating quality content negatively will hurt your ratings overall. Remember differing opinions and viewpoints tend to make for the most interesting discussions. So I think it will affect the person's rating as well. In fact I have only used the negative rating when some was spamming discussions, in that case I also reported him as this was all the user was doing in many discussion and not in just one case.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yes you are right, but rating negatively also reduces a little bit. But here the problem was not just rating. The tag added by that person to the discussion was "foolish task" That is what made me to start this topic. Misunderstanding a discussion and adding tags like that? tag is something that is used to find appropriate content and not a remark on anything! do you think someone will search for a topic like "foolish task" on Mylot? Then what was the purpose to add it? So, it is expected to read the context and not generalize everything. Thanks for responding Happy Mylotting!
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• Poland
2 Aug 09
yes there are some people who add tags that are not appropriate as well. One has to understand properly what the discussion is about. sometimes we don;t understand correctly the tone of the person since we are just reading which may also be affected by the different cultures and when the language is not used appropriately.
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@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Aug 09
Actually I don't pay attention to my rating. I think it is a little mean to rate others' posts negative. I always rate others' posts positive. If the posts are annoying, I will just leave it alone but I won't rate it negative anyway. If others ever give me negative rating, I will take it easy. After all, I won't care about it. My rating will increase again by other nice Mylotters. I love China
@Wismay (2037)
• India
3 Aug 09
I did get negative rating from some others but I didn't mind it at all as I also don't think rating as the one and all. But it was a bad experience. Only who experiences it can feel it. So I was a bit upset when someone misunderstood and commented some things which I don't deserve. I agree with your remarks Happy Mylotting!
@meapas (2436)
• India
2 Aug 09
If you can't rate positive, better don't but never rate negative. This has been my principle. This is a very sorry state of affairs. I feel very sorry for you. I think unknowingly that person must have done it. So forgive, forget and move on.
@meapas (2436)
• India
2 Aug 09
Anyone in your shoes will be upset, I understand. Let us forget the whole issue here.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
You are right but I was a bit upset. You know, a little bit!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
Hello friend, oh,,,that's two bad 2 points is really sad friend. Yeah,why there are some mylotters had to do that? I had an argument with one of our mylotters here,but i never think of rating him negative and it never did came up to my mind either.Not even in my discussions i ever rated someone negative thu sometimes i feel offended. Hope this won't make you stop mylotting dear
@Wismay (2037)
• India
3 Aug 09
I did feel like stopping participating in discussions and being very selective and concentrating mainly on tasks. But then I thought, I have come across many who are golden hearted ones so I will continue posting no matter if someone mistakes me, because there are others who don't. Happy mylotting!
@aschip (166)
• India
3 Aug 09
Hmm ... I think being diplomatic is the best way to go here. Dont hurt anyone's feelings neither start a controversial discussion. I am very sorry to hear about your experience but I think you might want to tone down a little bit in general? Also, I tend to avoid responding to discussions which are too personal and your opinion might be too candid..lol Forget about it, friend, just keep posting and having fun here :)
• China
2 Aug 09
Maybe lapsus has just taken that. And you have no reason to be angry even she is in advisedly. Because to be angry is a castigation from youself.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
I am not angry. I just feel bad about the comment which has been done without knowing what exactly is the discussion is trying to convey. I don't get angry for anything. My friends and near ones know it very well. Happy Mylotting!
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@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
2 Aug 09
hi vismay, do not panic,it is commen,they are thinking that they know very well about rules,some day they will also llose points due to their loose words,have a nice Friendshipday greetings to you
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
Happy Friendship day to you too! Have a great time!
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
2 Aug 09
How did you came to know that she marked a negative response on your post?In fact,I started a post on this about how we can know what responses we get but it is said that it remains a secret.Did she explicitly told you in the response as she has marked neagtive on you?If so,I feel sorry for you.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
You have a rating then you get a comment and your rating reduces by two points. What it indicates? Well, leave it now. I already forgot it. Happy Mylotting!
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• Indonesia
2 Aug 09
Sorry to hear that.. How can it happened? May I know which of your discussion you're talking about? I'll look it in your profile page. If that happened to me, I must admit that I can do nothing.. but if I feel really annoyed, I will ask that lady and hope she won't do it again if she doesn't understand the meaning of your discussion.. Because we're allowed to rate someone freely here, I think your case had happened several times to many members here.. I personally never check my rating,, Hope this will never happen again to you and maybe you can use words that not cause people misunderstand your meaning..
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
You can find the discussion in the Interest: "mylot.com" Yes, I always try to keep it clear and simple, but sometimes anything can be misunderstood. It is out of our hands. Regards
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• Philippines
2 Aug 09
Oh, that's terrible, but even though there was such a important content in your discussion, try to make sure it wouldn't hurt some one in this site. that's the privileged of every mylot user when ever they feel uncomfortable with the subject that they just read in discussion.i have read some how that discussion that i think you were referring to. just an advice don't just accused some one of rating you negatively because it can also be some one else. I know that person, she won't be saying that if she didn't see it herself. You should at least took her comment as a positive remark since she was here longer. that's why i never argued those who corrects me now. too dangerous, i don't want to cause a fight that i might regret..we are subject to good or bad criticisms. this is a discussion after all.. i hope you could move on to other things. i had worst,they rated you down..me? they rated me down? and have my old account deleted...yeah, this is my new account. Have a great day Wismay....
@tutor19us (455)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yes I have been through that. A person rated me neagitvely without understanding that I posted my views on a purely esoteric way. S/he gave very strong views. I was kind of taken aback. :(
@Wismay (2037)
• India
2 Aug 09
Yes, it really feels bad when you are misunderstood. But one can't help it if they don't try and just jump out to judge something superficially. Just moving on without giving much thought to such things is better Happy mylotting!
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• China
3 Aug 09
i am sorry to hear your bad experience. honest to say i am also new one here , we need learn more . we need learn from each other .so keep chain up . donot see that things just do yourself