August 2, 2009 10:10pm CST
I must appologize first for those who might find this discussion a bit offended. Hi guys, It has been a long time since I even had touched this section at myLot. So, back to discussion, it is about abuses. Apart from Stupid, Bad**s, Idiot, B**ch there is one more set of abuse which includes the famous "F" word. My question is related to it. why is it that only girls are target with these abuses. I mean to say, people would only use "mother" or "sister" or "daughter" with this f word to make it a highly offensive abuse, isn't it? why isn't it like "father", or "brother" or "son", why is it only used with a ladies relative words? Is it because men has a "hot rod" and a women doesn't?
6 people like this
3 Aug 09
Women should be treated with respect and not abused with words that are hurting. I don't understand why women are associated with this 'F' words. I think it is because they are closely align to this word and without the female species, men can't implement this word in real. Men love their women and say sweet things about them when they want them but use this curse word to hurt them. Have they forgotten that they enter a woman and exit from woman? Women are indeed men's paradise on earth and should therefore be given the highest respect.
3 Aug 09
Yup, you are right but it is unfortunate that whenever people get a chance to hurt a female relative of their enemy they try to crush them and you know what I mean, aren't you? Wars are the best example of it where soldiers do rape women of the country who lost the war, isn't it?
• United States
3 Aug 09
woo hoo zandi! I like your attitude. And I wish more people would think the same. Unfortunately, there are some women who do not deserve respect or the ability to bear children. I have three sons and I pray everyday that they will treat their women the right way and adopt your attitude. Many men don't realize that with a good woman, their lives would be so much better. And sometimes that's because he's been hurt by a woman but not all of them are the same way. and they are probably looking in all the wrong places!
3 Aug 09
You know the last time, i had 3000 post too in my old account, i get to say a few of those words in my discussion. you know what happen, some smart guy reported me and had me canceled my account in which i thought it was suspended back then.If I hadn't loose my old account 3 months ago, we would have the same number of months being here. my advice don't put bad words even though it's not spelled correctly. because it cost my account. regarding this topic, such words are not supposed to spoken to a child, or they will learn to speak of it often. they might be saying the f word because there is an associated hate or angry on that person..
• United States
3 Aug 09
The body part has nothing to do with it. The actual correct answer to question I cannot give you, but I can provide my insight. . . One thing I have learned is that men feel they are more powerful than women, so by using the F word in the sense you described, I think allows men (even if spoken from a woman's mouth) to keep their sense and feeling of power over women. And honestly I do not think saying mother F-er or whatever is abuse towards females, I think it is say to you are the mother of all whatever...in other words to the worst or the biggest. I have never heard sister or daughter used with the f word...only mother...which again would be using mother in a different sense of the word...keep in mind majority of words have more than one definition.
18 Aug 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji, I only feel so bad to respond to this topic as we never have such vocabulary in our family. No one ever used and slang word even, what to talk about abuses. I am very frank to come out, it is another way of negative thinking. Our family do not believe in abuses. It is very difficult for me to come out correct response. May God bless you and have a graet time.
19 Aug 09
I am very pleased to know that you don't use these words in your life. Even I am not the user of it but in this new city I hear these things a lot and hence thought that I should ask this question. I am extremely sorry if you felt it offended. My appologies!
22 Aug 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji There is no question of feeling offended, everyone of us has liberty to discuss any thing desired by one. Exactly in that manner others are here to respond. I wish to express that bad procedures takes lesser time to adopt. If city where you live now is full of such things why do you get attracted to these. Spread your good city news. May god bless you and have a great time.
6 Aug 09
If we dig into human cultural history, we could find out that women has been threated as 2nd class citizen even though it is their own mother, wife, sister...... Those words are one of the heritage of that culture, though it is far better know.... Man or Woman should be threat equally. BR.b
4 Aug 09
Sanuanu!!! YOU’RE BACK!!! Sorry...I am a little behind with my emails, I know you have been back a while. I will not consider the ‘hot rod’ thing and say that it is a way for men to feel powerful over women because deep down they are aware how much more insightful and multiskilled females can be!
5 Aug 09
Yea I am back but not with a bang LOL! It is okay if you caught me a little late because I must be behind my eamils too. There are more than 1400 emails waiting for me to do the needful, which I don't think I can do that. Sorry for that! As far as the discussion is concerned, I must admit that it shows the twisted mind of males isn't it?