Abuses!

@sanuanu (11238)
India
August 2, 2009 10:10pm CST
I must appologize first for those who might find this discussion a bit offended. Hi guys, It has been a long time since I even had touched this section at myLot. So, back to discussion, it is about abuses. Apart from Stupid, Bad**s, Idiot, B**ch there is one more set of abuse which includes the famous "F" word. My question is related to it. why is it that only girls are target with these abuses. I mean to say, people would only use "mother" or "sister" or "daughter" with this f word to make it a highly offensive abuse, isn't it? why isn't it like "father", or "brother" or "son", why is it only used with a ladies relative words? Is it because men has a "hot rod" and a women doesn't?
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9 responses
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 09
Women should be treated with respect and not abused with words that are hurting. I don't understand why women are associated with this 'F' words. I think it is because they are closely align to this word and without the female species, men can't implement this word in real. Men love their women and say sweet things about them when they want them but use this curse word to hurt them. Have they forgotten that they enter a woman and exit from woman? Women are indeed men's paradise on earth and should therefore be given the highest respect.
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
3 Aug 09
Yup, you are right but it is unfortunate that whenever people get a chance to hurt a female relative of their enemy they try to crush them and you know what I mean, aren't you? Wars are the best example of it where soldiers do rape women of the country who lost the war, isn't it?
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• United States
3 Aug 09
woo hoo zandi! I like your attitude. And I wish more people would think the same. Unfortunately, there are some women who do not deserve respect or the ability to bear children. I have three sons and I pray everyday that they will treat their women the right way and adopt your attitude. Many men don't realize that with a good woman, their lives would be so much better. And sometimes that's because he's been hurt by a woman but not all of them are the same way. and they are probably looking in all the wrong places!
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
19 Aug 09
I wish my thinking never gets changed in future, no matter what happens!
@lala501 (1533)
• United States
3 Aug 09
I think its because men get angrier more than women. So they get a hotrod. And the man starts beating up the woman.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
5 Aug 09
Hi Lala, thanks for the response. Angrier, good point!
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
You know the last time, i had 3000 post too in my old account, i get to say a few of those words in my discussion. you know what happen, some smart guy reported me and had me canceled my account in which i thought it was suspended back then.If I hadn't loose my old account 3 months ago, we would have the same number of months being here. my advice don't put bad words even though it's not spelled correctly. because it cost my account. regarding this topic, such words are not supposed to spoken to a child, or they will learn to speak of it often. they might be saying the f word because there is an associated hate or angry on that person..
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
4 Aug 09
Yes, you are right, I have also faced the same problem! I will take care about it in near future! Thank you very much letranknight25!
@scififan43 (2440)
• United States
3 Aug 09
This is very good question. I am not sure on the answer to that one. I think I has a lot to do with treating woman as less than equal.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
4 Aug 09
Ah, again a very short and to the point respnse from scififan, isn't it? Yea, I think you are right, it is like feel good after raping a girl in enemies family, it is like taken some very valuable thing from a family!
• United States
3 Aug 09
The body part has nothing to do with it. The actual correct answer to question I cannot give you, but I can provide my insight. . . One thing I have learned is that men feel they are more powerful than women, so by using the F word in the sense you described, I think allows men (even if spoken from a woman's mouth) to keep their sense and feeling of power over women. And honestly I do not think saying mother F-er or whatever is abuse towards females, I think it is say to you are the mother of all whatever...in other words to the worst or the biggest. I have never heard sister or daughter used with the f word...only mother...which again would be using mother in a different sense of the word...keep in mind majority of words have more than one definition.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
3 Aug 09
may be but in my country language, every female relations words are used with f world. Here people say like BahanChod, or Madarchod, or Betichod etc. Here chod= f*ck bahan= sister madar= mother. So...
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@erikmama (12934)
• United States
3 Aug 09
i have no answer to this question, but i think you went really dep with it and if you get a good answer, please let me know!! heehee
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
3 Aug 09
Really! I think it is because this is men dominated world and women must have different abuses for another women but they never use them in public! LOL!
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• India
18 Aug 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji, I only feel so bad to respond to this topic as we never have such vocabulary in our family. No one ever used and slang word even, what to talk about abuses. I am very frank to come out, it is another way of negative thinking. Our family do not believe in abuses. It is very difficult for me to come out correct response. May God bless you and have a graet time.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
19 Aug 09
I am very pleased to know that you don't use these words in your life. Even I am not the user of it but in this new city I hear these things a lot and hence thought that I should ask this question. I am extremely sorry if you felt it offended. My appologies!
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• India
22 Aug 09
Hello my friend sanuanu Ji There is no question of feeling offended, everyone of us has liberty to discuss any thing desired by one. Exactly in that manner others are here to respond. I wish to express that bad procedures takes lesser time to adopt. If city where you live now is full of such things why do you get attracted to these. Spread your good city news. May god bless you and have a great time.
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
22 Aug 09
A truth is a truth, isn't it? may be other people who are living in my city will learn from this discussion that it is not good and they should avoid it!
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@djonghs (560)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 09
If we dig into human cultural history, we could find out that women has been threated as 2nd class citizen even though it is their own mother, wife, sister...... Those words are one of the heritage of that culture, though it is far better know.... Man or Woman should be threat equally. BR.b
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
19 Aug 09
Hmm, that is quite a thought. Who knows, these words were invented by women only! There could be that possiblity, isn't it?
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
4 Aug 09
Sanuanu!!! YOU’RE BACK!!! Sorry...I am a little behind with my emails, I know you have been back a while. I will not consider the ‘hot rod’ thing and say that it is a way for men to feel powerful over women because deep down they are aware how much more insightful and multiskilled females can be!
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
5 Aug 09
Yea I am back but not with a bang LOL! It is okay if you caught me a little late because I must be behind my eamils too. There are more than 1400 emails waiting for me to do the needful, which I don't think I can do that. Sorry for that! As far as the discussion is concerned, I must admit that it shows the twisted mind of males isn't it?
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