has anyone experienced this

August 4, 2009 8:05pm CST
i dont know weather this has happened to anyone else, but i chat on a few chat room sites and i have fallen for someone on there that i have neva met, has anyone else ever fallen for someone over the internet? have you ever met up and what has happened? have you been friends and met again or has it developed into a true romance and your have been together ever since? i would love to hear everyones stories!!!
12 responses
• United States
5 Aug 09
I know exactly where you are coming from. The girl I am currently dating I met online and we've been going on and off for about two years now, and we have both admitted we are in love with each other. We have tried several times to move on and we keep coming back to each other. We have plans to meet up next summer.
@hotsummer (10413)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
i would like to be in love with someone online. but i find it hard to find a person that will reciprocate feeling i have for any one i get interested in. so i have given up hope to meet someone special online.
• United States
5 Aug 09
Actually and surprisingly i never had feelings over chatting online. I'm not saying you're weird or anything because many people have experienced the same thing. The reason that I probably never have is because I'm just not big into the online chatting scene. Heck i'm even new to mylot hahaha! =)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
i've into taht many time. spend my time with them. but still nothing happen, though i know someone here, she said she met her husband over the net so i guess theres serious guy somehow... unluckily i never meet one yet.. all guys i've been chatting with looks like just trying to have some fun...
@vasavi20 (293)
• India
5 Aug 09
i haven't fallen in love with anyone whom i met in internet but other persons expressed there feeling to me ..but i rejected as i don't have any kind of such feelings towards them..and now they are very good friends to me.
• India
5 Aug 09
i did had lot of chat friends.. who became my reeal time friends, in which one of them was my love.. but tht didnt last long.. it was a true relationship but coz of some reasons it didnt worked out.. but i am not at all worried about tht now... but i think love through the net is not at all safe... we doesnt know wat kind of a person he is.. watever he says is right or wrong.. u can be a good friend of him... but loving a person means.. giving ur mind to him... if once u gave it.. its very difficult to get it it back.. so be safe... and think before u go ahead.. all the best and happy mylotting
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
i haven't experienced it... uhmmmm... i met my current boyfriend through text messages and later eyeballing... i think it's the same as using the internet... i fell in love with him after we've met not in the texting process...
• United States
5 Aug 09
Met my wife of five years now that way.
• United States
5 Aug 09
I have experienced this a few times. Some were just crushes and fun flirtations and nothing ever came of them. But two of them actually became serious. I actually met both my (now ex) husband AND my current boyfriend online. My ex i met in a chatroom and we fell in love online and over the phone, even though he was in maine and i was in nebraska at the time. Eventually we were able to arrage trips back and forth to actually meet eachother and spend time with eachother, and this just intensified our bond until finaly i made the move from nebraska to maine to live with, and eventually marry him. we were together for about 4 years, (married for 2) and were very happy together, we just grew apart and became differnt people (i attribute this to the fact that we were quite young when we married) My current boyfriend i actually met on *gasp* a free online dating site, Neither of us were actually looking for love at the time, just to meet new people and make friends, but we really started hitting it off after a bit, emailing and chatting back and forth, talking on the phone, then finaly meeting eachother. At least this time he is only an hour and a half away, and we see eachother at least a few days a week now, he coming to stay with me for a few days most times, but on occasion when i can get a couple days off in a row, i go and stay with him and his daughters. We have been doing this for over a year now.
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
Its normal to like someone online, especially if they have treated you right. I mean if they have shown kindness and have shown that they care. It may be hard to believe that people fall in love online but it happens. I have known few people that have been successful on their relationship even if they only met online. It would depend on how you handle the relationship and find a way to meet and be together. :)
• Philippines
5 Aug 09
It's normal to get attracted to someone you meet over the internet. But falling in love is I think a different story. I could it's more of infatuation. Liking someone is normal because you've kind of know the person a little bit. I have met someone on the net 6 months ago, and until now, we've been talking and it always seem like the first time. I get excited and I'm happy when I chat with him, there's no dull time with him. I haven't met him actually yet but we get the close bond like anything under the sun I could talk to him. However, I can't say that I fall for him.. Not yet, I got to know him first, know him in person, because that's way totally different compare when you chat over the net. And it's true.. But I can say that this relationship, whatever it leads has a chance.. I just don't want to rush it and would like to enjoy every moment of it..
@_sketch_ (5709)
• United States
5 Aug 09
Meh. Couple of crushes, nothing serious. Only have met one person online whom I've dated, but it didn't last long.