What is my biggest fear in life.

Philippines
August 7, 2009 6:05am CST
i dont know if some of you have fear about their future, but i do... Im scared to be alone...and im afraid that someday i wake up along the way and yet im still alone.. at my age right now, you really can't help but thinking.. Though of course nobody knows what i feel. If you can see me? Physically... you will not think about my age right now.. maybe bcoz as what they say, im gifted to have a "baby face" features(we normally use "Baby face" if a person still look young regardless of their age, and that their face doesnt speak of their age) and yes, a lot will tell me, that im still too young and that i shouldnt worry about being single.. but i really cant help it. even if i have BF right now. im still scared to think that what if he will left me....
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@zzyw87 (1261)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
We all can't help it to have something to fear of as long as we live. As for myself, I have two things I secretly fear. One is that, like you, I will be all alone when I am already old. Loneliness and being alone with all your loved ones gone is one thing I cannot stand. Second, I fear of running out of money. Yes, it may be shallow but let's face it, a bit of money enables us to have more easy lives. Money will always be the one to put food on our table, put clothes on our body, and put a roof over our heads.
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@agv0419 (3030)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
I'm also scared to be alone and die young. Right now I'm still strong I know that in the future my illness going to be full blown. I can't support my medication so I would not think about my illness anymore. As much as I could I stay positive that one day I going to meet someone who going to understand my condition and supports me. For now I want to be happy even if for awhile sometimes when I alone I always think about it all the time.
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@Pose123 (21675)
• Canada
7 Aug 09
Hi homeshoppers, I once read somewhere,"never take council of your fears" and I believe that it's true. I do not fear the future because it only affects the way I feel today. We should live in the the moment because it's the only time we have. Who ruin your day by worrying about what may never happen? I guess I am fortunate to be healthy and I'm grateful for that. Since I don't worry about what will happen tomorrow or the next day, I guess I really can't understand your situation but I suggest you try to move ahead with your life. Do something that you want to do and let the chips fall where they may. You will probably have a wonderful life if you can just relax and let it happen. Blessings.
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@grundmang (112)
• Israel
7 Aug 09
my bigges tfear is to lose the loved ones in my life...
• China
8 Aug 09
Can't agree you more.
@vastari (331)
• Ireland
10 Aug 09
My biggest fear is sleep. Sounds odd right? Unfortunately it's true. It makes me really annoying to be around. I'm afraid of going to sleep - mainly because of the things I dream - so I don't. It's not uncommon for me to go three or four days (and sometimes even longer) without any form of sleep. This makes me tired, cranky and prone to passing out which pisses off a lot of people. But they don't get just how much sleep terrifies me, so they just assume I'm doing it to be "cool". Yeah, passing out in the middle of a party is so cool. Sorry, I'm ranting. I do that.
@kircho (493)
• Bulgaria
8 Aug 09
This is the fear from the unexpected. Because "It" can come in every second..
@mikeyo105 (125)
• Hong Kong
8 Aug 09
My biggest fear.. is that.. one day the sun will not come up.. and there will be eternal darkness.. can you imagine that? It'd be such a messed up world if there's no sunlight every morning.. i know it's very unlikely that this would happen but if it ever did i have no idea WHAT i'd do... i'd be so damn depressed..Other fears I have definitely include losing loved ones.. What is life when you see those closest to you leave this world or walk out on you.. i would hate to ever see that happen.. I don't think you need to worry about being alone though.. it's easier said that done of course.. but your boyfriend is clearly still with you because he wants to be with you.. so don't let this worrying take a toll on the relationship and be yourself. I'm sure things will work out for the best!
@youless (76811)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Aug 09
I also have my fear. I am scared that one day my loved ones leave me. I can't imagine if my parents will leave me one day when they are very old. It is always the sad thing to think about. I love China
@jziakhan (702)
• Pakistan
8 Aug 09
oh, homeshoppers, dont worry about a thing like that, you will never be left alone, there will be friends and family around you always, and they will never leave you alone, and if you are wondering whether your boyfriend or anyone is going to leave you, then you should ask yourself, "does he act like he doesnt like me?" if not, then he will never leave you, and if there is another situation, then try making so many more friends that keep you away from feeling lonesome, Best of Luck,
@joygracia (1338)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
My fear is being left out alone with no one. I`m scared of the thought the my love ones would leave me.
@patofgold23 (5075)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
my biggest fear?? is that when I get married one day, and see my marriage fail... i guess it's because I come from a broken family... and I guess that fear is the reason why I'm already 30 yet I'm not thinking about getting married yet,or be in any relationship rigth now
@sagnik42 (3599)
• India
8 Aug 09
I fear a life without love.Love is very important for me.Be it from friends,parents,relatives or whoever that maybe I need love in my life.I sometimes fear what if everybody starts hating me.Will I be able to survive that??I do not think I can.I get pretty scared thinking about this.
• United States
8 Aug 09
My biggest fear is to have my heart broken.. The pain is too much for me even though I am very fit and tough. Emotional pain is the only thing that hurts me the most. I really do not want to go through another broken heart and all the pain, crying, and depression again...
• India
8 Aug 09
There are a lot of things in my life that I fear of, but the fear of failure is the biggest of them all. After putting a lot of effort, when it is known that one cannot proceed in the particular direction is really very disheartening. All these efforts then go in vain. This thing has happened to me on a number of occasions, that is why I don't want them to happen again and again and put my efforts in vain. But these failures are the part of life and one can never get parted away from these.
• India
8 Aug 09
hi. I am,new but taking you some suggestion. Every one in the world get once gift is life. Dont fear from life. Than think that the god give you one chance to prove your self. Know the power who was live in you.