Are you satisfied with your name? Would you change it if you have the chance?

what's my name? - change your name or what?
Philippines
August 7, 2009 7:51am CST
I have a short and unusual name. People sometimes thought that I am a guy when they haven't met me yet. My mom named me from a tennis player she liked then did some modification. And poof! That's my name now. LOL.. I don't have regrets about it. I'm just thinking about if I have the chance to change it, I'd like to have three to two names. I love to have a name like Dominique, Antonette, Francheska. If ever I want to be named as Zharina Danielle Elise. Maybe I could name that to my future daughter since I can't change my name now. How about you? Do you like your name now? Do you have particular names that you like???
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
8 Aug 09
Dear jenskye03, Wonderful topic of discussion! Just love it... great response too :) I am having the same situation as yours. Having a boy's name! You looks so beautiful and lady like... to have a guys name..?? My father admired the 3 most powerful countries in the world.. namely USA (America), so...there goes my eldest sister name. The USA was pronounced in Chinese (Mandarin) then converted into romanized, thanks God it is appropriate for girl's name! Then Russia...converted to Chinese then romanized it..wow.. nice girl's name for my second elder sister. Now...the third powerful country at that point of time... Germany....converted to Chinese (guy's name) romanized it... ~ confirmed boy's name! Imagined me having a guy's name for the rest of my life! Every year..year in year out, never failed as and when the first day of school started, teacher with the name list will start calling... my name was called..I stand up....the teacher shocked, jaw dropped... I thought you are a boy because it is a boy's name! I am totally immuned now! lol So, my second sister gave me Iriene...so it stick to me whenever possible! To change the name NOW...I already being laughed too long. No, I have build a good rapport with that name, so it is allright!
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• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hello friend! You're story is funny. Hmmmm.. I also have some little problems with my name from school. My professor sometimes list my name to the male students not knowing that I'm a girl. LOL.. But right now, it is ordinary for me when people thought I'm a guy. Well I think having a guy's name is cool because you seem stronger having a guy's name. Thank you for responding! See you around! ^^
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
Dear jenskye03, You got a very good point there...I like it and I think it has some truth there! With a guy's name, we seems (subconciously) more independent..I can go to cinema, meal, shopping, gathering, survey by my own, no need a friend to escort...but this bravery has loose its hold lately when I got married, I begins to rely on my husband more...'pampered / 'manja'... I like to do guy's thing, like watching suspense movies, guy's games..like to watch football, etc.. Tks and hope to see you around more often too..
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
Dear jenskye, Out of curiosity, mind to share you 'boy's name to me via personal message...lol, if you do not mind, tks!
• United States
7 Aug 09
I love my name but if I could I'd change my last name only because I'm carrying my ex-husband's name. It's not an ugly name just need a new one and it get mispronounced all the time.
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• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Awww.. I see.. Hmmmm.. why don't you use your surname again? ^^
• United States
7 Aug 09
My children have the same name and I just kept it. Besides there's a chance I'll be getting married next year and it's just a hassle to change my name yet again. Plus my surname is boring. It's phillips I mean seriously it's a bore.
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@gossipzz (498)
• Canada
7 Aug 09
when we get married and divorce we always want to change our name again. Some hyphen their name. I say leave it alone because like you said think of the kids when they get older and marry are they going to hyphen their name its going to get too long to put on paper.Be proud of your name the person who gave you that name was proud to give it to you for a reason.
@gloamglozer (1289)
• Australia
8 Aug 09
I don't want to change my name to anything else. It's a common name I have. There use to be 2 other people in my schooling classes that have the same name as me but I wouldn't want to change it since I've grown up with it and changing my name to something else seems to be like trying away a part of my own identity.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 09
yup, you are right about that.. your name is your identity.. so I might just give the name I like to my future daughter. ^^
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@lala501 (1532)
• United States
7 Aug 09
I actually quite like my name. I think it is beautiful it fits me great, but if I had to change me name it would want it to be Camille. I think that is the only name that I would like to have other than the name I have right now. I think that if I have a daughter when I get older, I would name her Camille, because I believe it is such a beautiful name to have.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hi lala! I'm also thinking about that. Since I can't change my name. I like my daughter to have the names that I like. ^^
@brienn (825)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Good day jenskye03, I think I am very satisfied with my name, although it is very popular and a lot people have the name that I have. But during my high school days I have thought that why my parents gave me that name, I asked them that but they that they just gave it. I know that I can't changed it so what I did is I just give my nickname, and when I join some forums I used a pseudonym.
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• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Ahhhh.. that's cool. so you make your own nickname?? why I haven't done that?? Hmmm.. sounds like a good idea.. I could make Danielle or Zharina my nickname even though its really not related to my real name.. LOL! Thanks for responding! ^^
@brienn (825)
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
That's what exactly what I have done, I used a nickname that is not really related to my name . That's why most of my friends ask me ho do I came up with that nickname, and I just say that I only like it that way .
@chikon (29)
• India
8 Aug 09
well well well.........my name is the most uncommon name in the whole world......my name is chikon.....any body possess this name.......i think the answer wud b no....i m really happy wid my name....chikon means - soft,smooth.....well i m a 22 yr old guy....and still i look like a 16yr old guy....my dad gave me this name and i m really satisfied 2 get such a uncommon and beautiful name............i m proud 2 bear such a wonderful name......
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hello chikon, I'm glad you are proud of your name. Hmmm.. having a unique name is cool because it makes you stand from the others right? Its easier for people to notice you more because you are unique. Thank you for responding! happy mylotting! ^^
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
9 Aug 09
Dear chikon, Yes, your name is absolutely unique, special and has its own identity and characteristic...good, Your father is very creative to come out with such a wonderful name for you..great job..to your dad :) This is my first time in my life to see this name 'chikon', so hope to hear your views more at myLOt...tks! All the best my special friend..take care!
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
7 Aug 09
When I was younger I used to want to change my name. I don't now, though. I am content with the one I was given. Coming up with names for my two daughters was a pain. I think that's when I realized I was just happy that I had a name! LOL
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Haha.. cool.. I'm ready for my daughter's name right now. I already have name in my mind so that wouldn't be a problem for me.
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• United States
7 Aug 09
I thought I had my first daughter's name picked, too. Two months before she was born my husband said he wasn't sure he wanted to go with that name afterall. Argh!
• Philippines
9 Aug 09
Haha.. I would argue with my husband if he doesn't want the name I want for our daughter..
• India
8 Aug 09
my name is Pratyush, Sanskrit origin and steers a lot of confusion in the minds of the hearer. I've hardly met anyone who hasn't asked my name twice. Its very confusing and very unique too. I love my name, I love it when there's a new teacher in class asking everyone's names and when my turn's coming, I tell my friends, "Look out now, I bet he/she'll ask me again... "
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hi Pratyush, having a unique name is cool because you're one of a kind! You should be proud of that! At first I thought my name is unique but I was wrong.. :(
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• India
9 Aug 09
Yup, having a unique name is quite cool. But hey, you never mentioned your name...
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
I was named after my grandmother who passed away after a week I was born. On my younger years, I felt everytime somebody called me with my full name it seems he or she's mad it me. I have nothing against my grandma but am not really satisfied with my name, that's why with my three children I see to it that I'd given them names they would love, like, cherry Fe, Charo Mae and Christian Jay. Should I can choose a name for me, I would prefer a two names combination which express something sweet or pleasant to hear.
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
I'm sure your children like their names. I also like having two names. My name is short and sounds like a guy's name. LOL!
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
correction: mad at me
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
7 Aug 09
The only thing I would change about my name would be to find some way to put an 'R' in it. For some odd reason, 'R' is my favorite letter. hehe What I do like about my name, particularly my last name, is that it has an 'L', an 'S' and a 'U' in it, which tickles me, because LSU is my favorite university. As far as a name that I like that isn't my own, I would have to say something like "Elisabetta Simone-Juliette" for a girl, and "Dominic Thomas" for a boy. that that's such a beautiful name.
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
haha.. Why you like the letter R? any special case about that letter? I don't have a favorite letter in particular though.. Thanks for the response.. ^^
@coolcoder (2018)
• United States
7 Aug 09
The last sentence should be "Those are such beautiful names". Wow, am I getting old.
@sblossom (2168)
7 Aug 09
I think my parents gave me a very meaningful and beautiful name. I like it and it's very too normal. so I don't think i would like to change it even i have a chance. My problem with my name is some people could not pronounce it properly. It is a little upset sometimes when i hear wrong pronouncement and wrong writting. To be honest the character of my name is very normal. I think for average educated people it's not problem. however some people do make mistakes with it. so if i have chance i would try to let more people know the meaning of my name instead of changing it. happy mylotting.
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• Philippines
7 Aug 09
I also don't like it when people unintentionally misspelled my name.
@pjsr18 (340)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
I have a simple and common name but I don't have any plan to change it even if I will be given the chance to do so. My name is Paul John and I'm usually annoyed because they are always interchanging the words to "John Paul" especially in school. But like what I've said, I will not change it because I treat it as the very first gift from my parents.
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@lala501 (1532)
• United States
7 Aug 09
That is true that is the very first treat from your parents. Does anybody ever call you P.J.? Because that could be just like your real name, except for the initials, so it would be not changing your name.
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@kenchobi (147)
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
I really don't like my first name. It's very short and common. And I don't even have a second name. Just a short first name. That's why I always use alias when I'm introducing myself to people but I'll tell them my real name also then explain. So If I have a chance to change my name I would probably do it, but I haven't thought about the new name. Some says Christian really fits on me. hehe
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Haha.. that's funny! ^^ What's so special with the name Ramon anyway? hehe.. I hope you're not naming a female you just met with Ramon also.. LOL!
• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Hmmm.. then why don't you make your nickname Christian then? I have a friend whose nickname is very far from his real name.
@kenchobi (147)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
My nickname is very far from my real name also. My classmates and friends always told me where did you get that nickname from your name. I always answered, "I dunno, my parents give them to me", and they will start calling me by my nickname which is sounds really silly actually. I think Christian sounds cool but I don't really feel it fits me. I think Ramon is better, just kidding. ^^ I always give that name to people I first met and they will say you are no "Ramon". Always helps me making friends also. True Story! :)
@aulius111 (330)
• Australia
7 Aug 09
I want my name to be Macey!
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• Philippines
7 Aug 09
Macey is nice. Why do you particularly like that name?
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
8 Aug 09
I like my name. I think it suits me, my middle name too, but I hate my last name. I think it is so ugly. I don't know if I will ever get married or if the guy I would marry would have a desirable last name, so I was considering changing it in the future, no time soon, but I'm not sure if I really ever will. Though I have been having fun thinking up last names for myself.
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hey there! Hmmm.. Look for a husband that has a nice surname so your problems will be over. LOL! I like my last name though, that's why my husband's surname should be also good because I won't change my surname now for an ugly one! LOL! Thanks for responding! ^^
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
8 Aug 09
Interesting topic. I think i am pretty happy with my name. As i have a chinese name and english name, i love both of them. Because when people hear my name or read my name, they feel that i must be a pretty girl. That makes me happy. lol... I haven't thought about the name for my next gernation yet.
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Wow.. Cool! You're lucky because people always feel that you are pretty girl because of your name. Unlike me, they thought I'm a male because of my name. LOL!
@mmohanc (18)
• India
8 Aug 09
Why the idea of changing name when its cool. Again all the business of legal and social proceedings will surely turn to be headache.
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Haha.. yeah I know legal proceedings to change your name is a headache. I wouldn't go so far from that anyway. ^^
• New Zealand
8 Aug 09
I have quite an unusual name but have learnt to accept and appreciate it. Other names I like are Isabella/Bella (not because of twilight, I have always loved the Italian culture and the name Bella)Madison, Sophie and Madeline. I also like the name Antoinette. :-)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Antoinette is nice name right?? ^^ Italian names sounds classy to me..
8 Aug 09
lolz i dont even have the confidence to tell people my full name. if i had the choice i would definitely change it to something else maybe something shorter. like megadeth :P
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
Hi.. so you like megadeth? Hmmmm.. sounds nice.. Don't be shy to tell others your full name. C'mon, I'm sure there's a reason why your mom or your dad named that to you right???
• India
8 Aug 09
i really dont know whether i like or hate my name because sometimes i really hate it and sometimes i like it..but still i wish i had some other modern name which people of all nations could atleast pronounce..i remember in school there was one south indian teacher and she like made so may things out of my name..it became satabali..stbdi..and so on..i think sometimes "satabdi" may be sweet but no how do you say it?my name is "Satabdi Das'.its soo lame..i hope my name was aniesha or sonakshi or maybe aiina or anchal..yaa i will name my future daughter one of these and fulfill my wish..:)
• Philippines
8 Aug 09
hello Satabdi! well you can name your daughter with the names you like so that you will always here that names from your future daughters. ^^