When was the last time you said i love you to our mom?

@simonelee (2715)
China
August 9, 2009 6:39am CST
I was in church earlier to attend the Sunday mass and start asking my self if I've been a good child to my mom? and things started to flash back and again ,I ask my self once more, am I a burden to her? did i make her happy? was all the sacrifices she made was useless? when can i tell her how much I love her? do I need a lot of guts to tell her all the feelings I've been hiding for years? (deep sigh) I wish I could say it today, not tomorrow, or the next day before its too late... How about you guys? did you always express, show and tell your mom how much you love her? How much important she is in your life? I hope to hear from you guys. Thank you in advance.=p
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6 responses
Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
9 Aug 09
LOL Um never..and I dont appreciate her, she isnt important in my life and for the record its a two way street...She has always and still does feel the same about me and my kids actually...No love lost in that relationship by any means..
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
10 Aug 09
oh! i didn't expect your answer to be this way:D I thought everyones gonna tell me how much they love and appreciate their mom. Thank you for being honest. I hope both of you will be okay and I'm sure she wants to hug her grand children. God Bless you and your family.=)
Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
20 Aug 09
LOL actually she has no desire to ahve anything to do with my kids...she sees them as an extention of me and she doesnt like me because I refused and continue to refuse to keep our familys vile skeletons in the closet..no biggie though, I've seen what her "love" has done to my brother, sister and my neice so my kids and I are better off by a long shot!
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
21 Aug 09
Oh, okay. well, we do have reasons why we act like this and like that. Thank you for sharing your experience. Your're one of a kind. Are you an american? I haven't viewed your profile yet. Love your frankness.
Springlady
@Springlady (3986)
• United States
13 Aug 09
I told her I loved her just this morning! God has blessed me with the best mother!!
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
14 Aug 09
awww... you're so sweet. pretty sure your mom stated her morning with a smile and the food she was cooking made more special. are you and your mom are the close? do you share some secrets? thank you and happy morning, springlady.
Novelist_117
@Novelist_117 (566)
• Qatar
9 Aug 09
Hi simonelee :) well, the mother rank in the society is high to reach , even her efforts for her child that she makes is absolutely respectable ,I always kiss her and show my love to her every day whenever I pass near her where she stays at the moment coz our religion Islam tought us how to be good to our moms and how we should respect her always in our coming life as she did when we were young :)
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
10 Aug 09
=) I wish all Muslims and Christians are like you. As I remember the last time I did that I was in school age. I also express my love through my gestures and by saying how much I love her. Thank you for your response.
meapas
@meapas (2436)
• India
9 Aug 09
I strictly follow her teachings and I know nothing makes her more happy than this. I keep telling every one, this was taught by my mother.
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
13 Aug 09
well, you are really a good child. you make your mom pride huh? that's nice to hear form you. I can never be as good as you but i know deep in my heart I always want her to be happy and be proud of me... Thanks for responding! happy myloting, meapas.
voldrox
@voldrox (7191)
• India
9 Aug 09
well to be honest i have never said to my mom that i love her but she KNOWS that i do... we talk about various issues and all and there is understanding between us, i adore my mother, she is the best and i love her
xio shi
@simonelee (2715)
• China
10 Aug 09
I hope I can also show to my mom how much I love her the way you do . We barely talk and most of the time we argue some certain things and ended up not taking with each other for weeks.
bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
You don't have to say to her that you love her..It would be scary to her..lolz I think her first respond is..are you getting married? Are you pregnant? lolz ...... The best why to show to her that you love her is just simply be her loving child. That will make her proud of you. No matter how many I love you, you say to her if you don't know it, Its has no value.