When do you usually hate your friends?

India
August 10, 2009 8:15am CST
I hate friends when they do wrong to me and say that i have never done it and making gossip that beacuse of me they have done it and they are not gulity about the problems and also unecessary joke that we never like to share, i also hate friends making so bad gossip about others and also selfish ones never help eachother for anything.I also mostly hate stealers and jealous ones..... guys when do you hate your friends really share your expereince here.. happy mylotting
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26 responses
• Malaysia
11 Aug 09
I don't usually hate my friends, but I hate the situation when a friend takes advantage of our friendship. I was working with a friend who was in a higher position than me. We worked in the same department, but he always did something that was against the working policy and he knew that my other colleague and I would not report his actions. So, we are left to cover him and we did not like it a bit. It took some time for us to tell him that work is work and finally when we did, we are still friends.
• India
11 Aug 09
same for me also i also do not like the people who take the advantage of the friendship, i really hate such perons..
• China
12 Aug 09
I dislike my friends when they get the interest at the expense of damaging our emotion between us ,the basic personal and social baselines. when my friends cheat me ,insult me ,harm my self-esteem ,I will renounce the relations for ever
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
11 Aug 09
I don't like friends that run their mouth about me or that steal money from me. That is two thinks that really frustrate me about friends that I have had in the past.
• United States
11 Aug 09
Under these circumstances, you were not their friend and they were never yours. But it sounds as though all of you are young children and have no clue what real friendship is. Good luck in learning about it one day. It's a beautiful thing. A real friend loves you no matter what you do, stands by you in good times and bad, is there to comfort or help with the laughter. You and your 'friends' are children with a lot of growing up to do.
@olepmis (843)
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
I hate my friend when he never pays his debt and not felt sorry for not fulfilling his promises. He sometimes ignores me when he is in other groups I do not belong, too. Pretended to be my friend but he is not.
@grace118224 (1040)
• China
11 Aug 09
When i come to this topic i hardly can think of anything i would hate my friends. If they are my true friends they won't do wrong to me and make gossip. If they do i won't keep the friendship with them any longer.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
11 Aug 09
as human,they have their owned feeling,i don't hope to do like that,i found that hating let me feel tired whatever life and work,i could not avoid that friends like this appeared in my life,i must face all different people every day and find different way to deal with it,so i don't hate with them,maybe what they have done hurt your heart and others,you have any reason to hate him,but i found that the life is not flatness,so i care about the future in my life and don't spend my time to hate somebody,this only waste my time to do like this,i often talk to me and pay attention to what they done,and keep instance with them,don't let them destroy my life,this is my opion.
@fifileigh (3619)
• United States
11 Aug 09
i had problems with jealous friends. i just ignore them and tell them i am busy. i have learned not to make friends with ugly people because they have problems of their own.
@notcry (7)
• China
11 Aug 09
I have a friend,in fact,I do hope can be real friends with he,but I don;t know why,why he don't tell his thins to us,never share with us,he is very alone.when we treat as he as our friend,and tell he everything,but he nerve, his heart seems can load all of the thing,I don't know if it is good,but I hate!
• Indonesia
11 Aug 09
I hate my friends when they betray me, use me for their selfish benefit. But I don't think about it all the time. Life must go on afrer all ...
• China
11 Aug 09
I hate duplicity of the people.They may say very well but do totally opposite.TThis kind of people make people scared.I also hate people who say ill of others.
@patofgold23 (5075)
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
i hate it when they promise not tell anybody your secrets.. but they do ugh!
@radx682 (327)
• India
11 Aug 09
I may not hate them but forgive tham and give them a chance...ok I may hate them when I realize that they pretended to be my friend and if they let out my personal issues to some one...
@bing28 (3798)
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
I hate friends when sometimes I feel they no longer care, when they don't bother to communicate and when they don't try to respond to your effort of reaching them. I am patient however with my friends I gave them all the benefits of the doubts, so I never lose a friend.
11 Aug 09
I hate friends who brag (whether it be about their clothes, their new job position, etc.) It makes me feel that i can't compare with them, and I'm far behind. I also hate my friends who look down on people who dress badly, it's not like everyone can afford nice clothes.
• Philippines
11 Aug 09
If you really treat them as friends, you won't really judge them with what they do try to do to you. You should understand them and if you have really proven that they did something wrong, you should confront them and talk over things. You should think about the memories you had rather than rant about the bad things they've done to you. That's if you really treat them as real friends.
• United States
10 Aug 09
I have acquaintances and I have friends. I don't usually know my acquaintances well enough to "hate" them. I choose my friends very carefully and never "hate" them. Hate is such a terrible word to use. It's a very strong word to use. There are times when my friends annoy me terribly and that would be when they're too bossy and don't let me do the things that I want to do without begging me or trying to push me to do something else then giving me a guilt trip because I don't want to do something they want to do. That is the most annoying thing ever. Otherwise, I know we all have our differences in opinions and mannerisms and I choose my friends because I like who they are. If I hated what they did then I would hate who they are and it wouldn't make a difference. Did that make sense? LOL
• United States
10 Aug 09
I hate when my friends tell me what I should do. It's somewhat hypocritical but I don't think people should be telling each other what to do without their consent. I think it's not my place to be telling people what they should do.
@dbabcook (390)
• United States
10 Aug 09
Well, first of all a TRUE friend would never gossip or talk badly about you. We all have many friends (acquaintances). All of which will at some point in time turn on you. I have trusted in people and thought they were my friends and had them begin gossiping about me & my life, then they say they didn't do it. Truth of the matter is is that they did but don't have the courage to be honest with you about it. There are too many people out there that are 2-faced. They are your friend to your face but when they are with other people they will talk trash about you. A true friend is there for you no matter what the situation is.
@imsilver (1668)
• Canada
10 Aug 09
I don't ever hate my friends. I'm part of a close circle of women. It's one for all and all for one type of deal. Sometimes mistakes are made and I'm disappointed in them but I wouldn't ever hate any of them. Everyone else is outside of my circle and people in general I'm not too fond of to begin with. It's not that I hate them, I'm just not comfortable and so I stay out of situations that will put me in alot of contact with them.