You want your ex back!

@Citychic (4078)
United States
August 11, 2009 8:32pm CST
Hey friends, let's say that you are thinking about your old Ex. that you broke up with some years back. Now life has moved on but you still think about them. Dream about them and you even wonder from time to time what life might have been like if you had of married them. So now you are even thinking about getting in touch with them. So how would you approach the topic in order to let them know that you want them back? Happy mylot?
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5 responses
• United States
12 Aug 09
Be very careful, sometimes it works and sometimes you will find that there was a reason you should not be together with that person, I gave my ex three tries to get it right but she kept going back to a way of life with a lie and a person that tells lies is a person that can not be trusted and if that is the case there is no relationship because this is not an issue of better or worse but it is impossible to live with a person that would continue to lie little is great as the heart becomes cold and hard like stone on a winters night. If your love is true continue to do the things you do until you know for sure that there is something better standing on the other shore... A prince stands waiting to be drawn into an ocean of love...
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@Citychic (4078)
• United States
12 Aug 09
Thank you my friend, that was great advice and will certainly keep it in mind. I agree with you that a life cannot be built off of lies so you need to leave that alone. But in my case the reason was different. I didn't like the person's controlling ways. Now what happens, I end up married to someone that has the same problem, controlling ways. Small world Huh? Happy mylot!
@myliezl0903 (2731)
• Philippines
12 Aug 09
hi there! with my past experiences before regarding my ex boyfriend i don't have a guts to ask them back ., they are the one asking me back ., but if you would ask me now who i want to be back with ., it is the one who gave me the true love and love me for who i am ., don't wanna drop names here but you know who you are ., i am just praying that God will change his mind for us to back again .,
@Citychic (4078)
• United States
12 Aug 09
Hello friend, thanks for your response. I appreciate it and I appreciate you. I will be sure to keep your prayer in mind when I'm lifting up prayers to God. Usually I don't believe in going backwards but for true love sometimes we may have to go around the same mountain at least a few times before we finally figure out who we are really destined to be with. And all of it is a living and learning experience in life anyhow, so we shouldn't beat ourselves up about it if we have to go backwards in order to move ahead. wishing you all the best. Happy mylot!
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
move on... don't settle for anything less. i guess he's happy already with his life without you.. so it's better if you'll just accept the fact that he's satisfied with his life already... you'll only hurt yourself if you'll still long for that person
@meapas (2434)
• India
12 Aug 09
Never cry over spilt milk and never lick what has been vomited. Move on in life without looking back. Yesterday was history and tomorrow will be mistry, so live today which is under your control.
@marianna45 (1400)
• Romania
12 Aug 09
Hi there, in my opinion to try to start something who was finished long time ago is not good. what is finished is finished. All hapened with a reason, and if your ex decide that don t want to be with you in a moment, why now, after long time try to start again? i don t say that is impossible, but something is broken inside and don t deserve to suffer again