Have u ever annoyed with mylot friends?

@shibham (16977)
India
August 13, 2009 12:59pm CST
hi everyone, A Simple questions to all of u. have you ever annoyed or angry with any mylotter from your friend list? If u are not then from any other member who is still here? What was the matter? Well, I annoyed twice, once when a member misinterpreted my discussion and secondly a member from my friend list. She is a veteran. I responded her discussions bcoz I know what the meaning of friendship here is. I hoped her comments but she neither commented to my discussions nor did she respond to my discussions. She is just displaying in my friend list. I am thinking about to delete her. Have u ever faced a situation like this? Have u ever deleted someone from your friend list? What was the reason? Please share. SHIBHAM 13-08-09
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19 responses
• United States
13 Aug 09
yes i have a few friends that annoyed with me because i try to get them to join mylot. it kind of ruins a friend ship you know because you really see what friends are there for you and what friends aren't. i know one of my friends aren't there for me but i just like hanging out with her anyway because when were alone she shows me tons of attention and shes just awesome and funny. but she will leave me at the drop of a dime its always about her. so i tried to sell mylot to her for 3 days. then she got mad and sad stop messaging me about that site. and yes i have deleted someone from my friend list it was a person who had 0 post and discussion and they joined about a week ago and i was like if they really want to add me they will find me again if they actually ever get on again. and no i have never been in a situation like that.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi there, your friend is realy selfish and stay away from her. she is not with you for any good reason. these type of friend can ruin your life as u have mentioned. so be aware . yes i ahve also deleted a membe from my friend list bcoz he had no activity except a long friend list. thanks for response
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
It's ok tiffany. that happens to me too, hard to believe that will of my friends, none of them wanted to join the site.well, their lost not ours
• Australia
15 Aug 09
I have never been annoyed with anyone here on mylot. Also, for me when it comes to people responding to my discussions, I honestly don't expect my friends to respond to them. Don't get me wrong, I am always hapy to hear what they have to say & that goes for everyone else here on mylot. For me, I would never delete a friend just because they didn't respond to a discussion. I guess this is because when I respond to discussions, I only respond to the ones I have a say on or know about something when someone else is trying to find out some information.
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• Australia
3 Nov 09
thanks for marking measbest response...what a nice surprise
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@shibham (16977)
• India
3 Nov 09
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@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Aug 09
hi there, i am not so lucky as u. hahaha...no friend, i have also not deleted that person bcoz he did not response me but for his 0 activities. i appreciate your thoughts. thanks for response.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
14 Aug 09
Hi shibham! I have a whole load of friend on my list and alot of them never respond to my discussions. I do make it a point to go to each profile page at least once a month to make sure I don't miss a discussion I can input on but that doesn't mean they will respond to mine. I have only deleted canceled accounts and some that have very low activities and haven't logged in for a while. I try to be understanding. Sometimes I don't get my email alerts for some of my friends responses or new discussions. I feel like checking their pages assure I don't miss to much. Take care.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Aug 09
hi jeny, yes i have seen your loads. yes i appreciate your system to get connected with friends. i think i have to follow your system. yes there are some members who have least activities and just respond with "yes" or "no" type response. i am really annoyed with them . anyway thanks for response.
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@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
14 Aug 09
i don't delet anyone from my friends list in mylot.we just foucus on discussion here not for other things.we can know and learn more from everyone here i think.good day
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
yes your thought are right but all of us are not same or not have the same motives as u. thanks for response
@surfermac (465)
• India
13 Aug 09
it happens as when ever you find some post interesting you try to add them and when ever you find some other post interesting you go to the other post and mylot doesnt keep on displaying the same topic when we look at the discussions thats is the thing i too have thrown out discussions and never got out a response from my fellow mylotters and one thing is that if you even started out a discussion how would i know unless until i go to your profile on mylot
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Aug 09
If you go to 'preferences' at the top of the page and then to 'notifiers' you can turn then 'on' and you will know when you receive a response on your dicussions and a comment on your responses
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi, there is no need to go to someone's profile to search a discussion. if he is existing in your friend list than u are automatically informed about it in your home page. i never go to someone's profile for a discussion. yes if i get some interesting topic then i never see either he/she is in my friend or not? thanks for response.
@indyoke (79)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 09
I don't feel annoyed by user in my friend list. If they don't respond my discussion, i don't think it's as problem. I don't delete my friend in the list, i don't care about it.
@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Aug 09
hi there, diffreny person different view. thank for response.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 09
I seldom get annoyed with mylotters but if anyone provoke me with personal attack or on any of my friends it will wake the sleeping tigress in me and would immediately pounce on that person with my acid tongue. I will retaliate if I am wronged when I am right. I will once in a while do 'house cleaning' on my friends list when the need arises. So far I have deleted few people there who seems to be only sleeping partners.
@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
sleeping partners....... nice words zandi. yes that is the matter why i am thinking bto delete her name. your idea is very perfact. i shall follow it. don't mind hehehe... lol
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
13 Aug 09
I am annoyed with one of my friends on my list too He hasn't got the phone hooked up yet I don't get annoyed if those on my list don't respond on my disussions at all as Iknow they could be busy elsewhere and not have time or not be at all intrested in what I am posting. That is not a reason to be annoyed with a friend surely?
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi there, yes i am also annoyed with them who never response to my discussions being my friend but more than it i annoy with them who has not the least loyality to comment back. i have a friend in my friend list a i have mentioned above . i have responded to her more than 10 but no comment still now. thanks for response.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Nov 09
hi shibham I rarely ever delete someone just because I have not'heard from them in awhile. there are a zillion reasons why people do not come back for a long period,illness,family problems, divorce, remarriages, so I give them the benefit of the doubt. they are not hurting anything being there and may come back once their problems are solved.give your friends a chance,they may come back.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Nov 09
yes u have mentioned sufficiant for why some mylotters dont respond for a long time. but if u see them responding to others discussion except u then? what would u do? think.
• Malaysia
14 Aug 09
hi shibham .. i am not offended by friends not responding to my discussions because - they have their own topics that is off interest to them - sometimes they are not active when we start our discussions so they miss out so i dont care that much .. for me i only respond to topics of interest not all that my friends start cheers
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@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Aug 09
hi sanjana, yes there i am also not offended to anyone for not to response but if u have posted more than 10 responses and latr u have not get any comment back from that friend then can u say that it is not a annoying matter totaly?
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@med889 (5941)
21 Aug 09
I have a friend, a girl, with whom I usually get annoyed with, she does not have any problems but she creates one everytime, once I told her that she should have got a real problem to know what problems are in reality and how normal individual tackle it. She is very rich and thus with no such problems but she exagerates when she has a tiny thing to do. She is not in mylot thankfully else everyone would have known her by her problems. she is still my friend though.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Aug 09
hahaha.......med, i asked it for mylot. anyway i have also a stingy friend who annoyed me in real life. actually i don't like stingy person. thanks . lol
@busky5 (3164)
• Thailand
15 Aug 09
I understand in your meaning, i am alike you.I will not delete who have alike you thought but i will not comment or response to them.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Aug 09
hi thanks for our similarity. and thanks again for the response. lol
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@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
14 Aug 09
I have never been annoyed by any of my Mylot friends here. I guess it would be annoying that you spent so much time replying to his/her discussions and she doesn't even bother to respond to any of yours. I have lost real friends in real life before either because they moved away or just mad at me for something.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi there, as u are a newby u must have to wait for those bitter experiences. it is realy teasable. i am so sorry to hear your real life incidents so i am here. don't for get that u have not real friend at all. if u wish i am here . thanks for response.
@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
20 Aug 09
Have not been through that, I would hope I don't annoy a friend here, I will disagree with them, depending on the topic, but I will not respond to anything that may cause a debate between me and a friend, just not worth, I am careful with my friend request, and responses I accept/request friendship because I had a good feeling about someone, I don't want to be friends with everyone on mylot, so hopefully things like this will not happen to me, be careful with who you pick as friends, and try not to step on any toe with your responses, hope that help you.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Aug 09
hi kitty, yes ithink u did not and never do it. don't break the relations of us. yes as a good forum we should be careful with each other. i responded various times to a friend but never get any comment back. it irritated me for a long while. thanks for response.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
24 Aug 09
Not only for u kitty but also for each other. I also want to exchange my thoughts with some mylotters but not so openly bcoz! U also know the cause. So email is the best modem to get connected. Go to your message box to find out an email id. Take care.
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@kitty42 (3923)
• United States
22 Aug 09
If only I could be so lucky in my everyday life as I have been here on mylot, I came across some amazing people here, our connection is solely based on our thoughts, and how we feel about something and I find that to be a great way to connect, I have maybe 15 friend thus far, most of whom I exchange thoughts with on a daily basis, I said it before and I will say it again, I think mylot was made just for me lol
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Aug 09
shibham no I havent been really annoyed with anyone on my mylot friends list as I do not expect all of my many manyfriends to'all reply to all mydiscussions and comments. sometimes my topics'mAy not please all and I can Accept that.I do try to respond to all my friends but sometimes I find some discussions I cannot really'relate to for one reason or another. sometimes friends have valid reasons'for not responding. I always give them the benefit of'the doubt. I know I dont always respond to each and every thing my friends do. that is too big a job.
@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
hi hatley. don't mind, i am not agree with u. yes we are not binded to post comments to all the responses that we get. but if our cooperation encourage them to do more here then why we should be silent to them? yes those answers are may not be related to your thoughts but just share something yes or no. you are too veteran , i have not the power or enough knowledge to suggest u. plese don't mind thanks for response.
@aakkii (213)
• India
13 Nov 09
nop, not yet....... & i think i won't be, bcoz i m so coooooooool.
@shibham (16977)
• India
16 Nov 09
hi aakkii, be cool always. all the best.
• Philippines
14 Aug 09
As a matter of fact.yes.she was my former referral before i lost my first account. i got back and she's still here, but some thing happened to her and it started her to become very very angry and spread here at mylot. later, i found those disgusting angry comment of hers, and i said something and had her delete on my friends list. she' still my friend though but i haven't add her back again.. regarding your situation, it's either the veteran is busy or taking things somewhere, don't feel bad about it.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
ohhh perhaps u have found out her. no i have not get any offensive reply. actualy she never commented to my response. may be busy but don't hope that she is too busy to comment me from last two months. thanks for response.
@keven123 (28)
• China
14 Aug 09
I have never annoyed with mylot friends.Because mylot friends is so little,only five.So I think if I meet this situation,I will not care about this,just one cake,we shouldn't need to take the troulbe to yourself!This is normal.Not everyone want respond to your discussion,he or she will never be intrest what your said.And this is my opinion.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
only five, why? ohhh u are a newby. welcome to mylot. yes he/she may not be in\terested but when i post a response then i hope a comment from him/her. thanks for response.
@izardy (60)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 09
hi shibham, for the time being i don't have any mylot frenz :), so i'm not sure wether i'll be annoyed when i have some then. however, in my opinion, why should we annoyed to those we only know in the cyberspace? it's different when these frenz know your true identity and you know their true identity. in the cyber space everyone love to brag. so it's normal when some people get annoyed with these kind of frenz.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
14 Aug 09
so sorry dear. why u ahve no friend? don't think that all the members of mylot are scam. i have some reliable friends here in mylot. wait i am requesting u to be my friend. lol