When we are happy we make others happy and sad we make others sad

@ajithlal (14569)
India
August 15, 2009 11:53am CST
We tends to hurt others when we are sad or depressed. So we have to be happy to love others and make others happy. Do you think so? Have you ever felt like this in your life?
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@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
15 Aug 09
I think this kind of situation surely ever happened once in awhile to everyone in their daily life. So, the best way is, try to make yourself feel as happy as possible, try not to easily feel sad. It's common when people feeling sad, it's hard to control emotion, so it tends to show out and makes the people around you feels the same, too. It really does hurt other people feelings, when you can't control your emotion. So, whenever you feels sad or down, always remember that it will also makes your loves ones feels to same, too.
@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 10
Thanks for this Best Response, Ajithlal. I am really happy to received this response from you. Hope you have a happy and properous life always.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
17 Sep 10
Yes I am really happy right now. I think it is great to be happy and to make others happy also.
• Philippines
15 Aug 09
There is a saying that goes - "misery loves company." Sad people tend to make other people around them sad and miserable. Because they are in a touchy feely moment that they find it hard to relate when somebody is talking to them. This is because something is eating them up inside. And I guess also that in the same way that a smile is contagious, sadness is also contagious to those around us.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
15 Sep 10
I also agree that sad people makes tend to make others sad and happy people tends to make others happy.
@IzzyKitty (117)
• United States
15 Aug 09
I feel this is very true. My happiness seems to effect others whether I want it to or not, and very often someone's happiness effects me as well!
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
15 Aug 09
When we smiles at someone we make the day for someone.
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• United States
15 Aug 09
I believe that is true :)
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
26 Sep 11
I also sees smiles a lot when I simply smiles even with strangers.
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
15 Aug 09
Yeah thats true well it depeds like if you are sad then your family is going to be sad because your sad but I doubt a stranger that hardly knows you would feel sad for you well depending on the situation. I know in a movie when someone is happy it makes me happy so yeah thats kind of true.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
10 Apr 12
I think if we try to make ourselves happy in our life, we will also make others happy automatically. It is always great to see everyone happy around us.
@izathewzia (5142)
• Philippines
16 Aug 09
Our love ones get affected of the way we feel. Because they love us. So when we are happy, they are happy as well. And worst, when we are sad, they are sad, too. And it is the same thing towards our love ones.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
29 Apr 12
Yes our loved ones get the affection and love that we have in our lives.
@fwangaa (3058)
• China
16 Aug 09
you are right. i also hurt others if i feel not very well or be hurt be others. i must not let my bad emothion to hurt others thinking . but it need you to regulate your thought quickly. and never think the bad thing if you talk to others. and so not be effect by other's bad emothion. keep a good emothion all the time if you talk to others.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
5 Aug 12
I also think that we hurt others when we do not feel well.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
16 Aug 09
Yes. I have felt like this also. I have been sad alot in my life but it really did not affect other people. I am sad when they are sad though. I am happy when they are happy also.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
19 May 12
I think we need to stay in happy and make others happy and enjoy every second in our lives.
@kitty42 (3912)
• United States
16 Aug 09
When I am sad I tend to stay to myself depending on the situation, not fair to bring others down, so I cry/talk to myself till I get through it and nobody is the wiser, I am learning and trying to be happy all the time happy just puts you in a better place spiritually, sucks being sad it really do, for females we have an excuse sometime we get said for no reason, but when I go around someone who is like woe is me,I tell them you know what you need to get over this cause I feel good right now, and I don't want to change the way I am feeling because you found another reason to moan this is usually someone that does this all the time, so you get a little sick of it after a while. there are some people that actually like to complain or found some sickness that a doctor has yet to diagnose and they want you to feel sorry for them, I am really trying to change that feeling sorry for everybody attitude now its either you snap out of it, or get away from me. great post by the way.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
14 May 12
I think we should try not only to make happy, but ourselves also happy in life.
@Hatley (164484)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Aug 09
hi you are so nice to look at things that way but the general public is so busy thinking about their own lives they generally dont notice how we act or look.' Sometimes even people close to us are so concerned about their own selves they dont see we are happy or sad. but if we come all over complainey around friends or relatives 'they will also feel sad.But nobody can go Arund all day being happy happy happy as you cannot really be what you dont really feel inside. you can only pretend so long before what is bothering you or mAking you happy will have to come out eventually. Of course we should try to smile and be as happy as we can but it has to come from our hearts, not just a mask to make people happy when we Are far from being happy.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
29 Apr 12
Yes nobody can be happy all time, but when we are amount happy people, we automatically becomes happy in our life.
• Canada
22 Aug 09
I don't think we are responsible for other people's emotions, however, when we are surrpounded by a certain emotion, it can catch on. The best thing to do when someone is sad is to try and do something to make them happy. when someone is happy, enjoy the happiness.
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• India
31 Mar 13
I think all we experience that. when we are happy and energize we look at things in different view and opposite of than when we are sad and not in the mood we try to see negative part in everything.. it is an art to live happily and stay happy and energize all the time, I wish one day comes that in this world we see only smiley faces and happiness for all...
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 Apr 13
I also think that when we are in good mood and when we are happy, we make others happy and when we are sad we make others sad through our behavior. I also hope that there are lots of smiley faces and happiness all over the world.