I'm so happy!!! I had court today and finally the judge seen his true colors!

United States
August 18, 2009 11:52am CST
I had to file an emergency hearing because my ex-hubby snatched our son out of the drive way. Well, he is so darn cocky and arrogent and usually he intimidates the heck out of me. For once I stood my ground, remained calm and it all worked out! The judge seen what was best for the kids and made the neccesary adjustments to help fix the problems. I'm so happy for my kids! Now maybe they can start to have a routine with him and will settle down! I am so relieved! Anything exciting happen to you today? What are you blessed with? What are you happy about?
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@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
18 Aug 09
I am happy for you and your kids. Isn't it amazing what you can seem to do when it comes to your children. You didn't let him intimidate you and for that I say hurry for you.
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@Thoroughrob (11771)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I am happy for you!! It is nice to hear something positive. Nothing exciting here today. I am happy my son has come through his surgery as well as he has, even though it won't be long and we will be going through the whole thing again.
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• United States
19 Aug 09
It's nice to have something positive happen. It's been a really rough couple of months. I found out that my cancer is back and I have to have surgery again. Seems like the more they cut on me, the worse it gets. When I found out I had it, they said that I would only have to have one or two and we are on number 5 or 6, I can't remember...UGH! It really sucks to know what you have to go through and know that you have to go through it again and again. I'm glad your son came through good and I will pray for him. Poor baby. I wish him no pain and fast healing!
@lumenmom (1997)
• United States
18 Aug 09
It feels so good when things finally go our way. Right now it seems things are going all wrong for us (in fact our anniversary vacation was more like National Lampoon's...the movie), but we still try to be thankful for the many other blessing we have on a daily basis. As a woman who has been intimidated my a boyfreind before I am so glad to see you were able to stand your ground. That is so hard to do especially when you are afraid. Hopefully you will have many more of those type of victories in the future.
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• United States
26 Aug 09
Yes it does! I'm sorry that your vacation didn't go well. Be thankful you had one, lol. I would kill for a vacation! Thank you for the well wishes! God Bless!
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
18 Aug 09
I'm so happy for you Steph. Let's hopt it's all up from this point on. Take care, and good luck.
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• United States
26 Aug 09
Thank you! I hope so too! ~Have a great day~ ~Stephanie
@Margajoe (4721)
• Germany
18 Aug 09
I am very happy for you and your children. Nope nothing exciting happened to my today. I have been blessed with more bills to pay and no money to pay it with. Oh well, things can only get better. At least you had good news today, that makes me happy too.
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• United States
26 Aug 09
Well, thank you! I know how it feels about the bill thing! I hope things get better for you but I'm happy that nothing bad has happened!
@rhoday (152)
• United States
18 Aug 09
I am so happy for you, and the fact that you actually won. It's always good to see someone stand up for themselves. So far nothing exciting has happened yet today, but the day isn't over with yet. I am so blessed to have my children and grand children around me.
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• United States
26 Aug 09
Thank you! I am so happy! I am very blessed to have 10 beautiful healthy babies.
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
18 Aug 09
I am glad you are having a good time, glad things have started to work well for you. Glad that someone is having a good day. I am having an awful awful day!!! I feel like I will just break down and cry my eyes out any second. But that is not allowed that would not be okay.
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• United States
19 Aug 09
Awe what is wrong? I feel like that almost everyday! And my good mood didn't last long yesterday either. I don't know what is wrong with me, I just have too much crap on my mind, I'm still losing weight and I cry all the time. I just want everyone to leave me alone sometimes or I wish I could just run away. I really do need a break. I'm so burnt-out. I'm here for you if you need to vent. And I really hope today is a better day for you! ((((HUGS))))
@stephcjh (32385)
• United States
8 Sep 09
I am so happy to hear it. My daughters dad always brings a lawyer to court with him and he wins every time. He will not ewin the next time he takes me though. I will get me a lawyer and they will see his true colors too because I will finally be able to speak and so will my lawyer for me. I am blessed with our daughter that he has never gave the time of day to and she will be 18 years old in a few months.
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@kitty42 (3912)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I am happy to be here at mylot, exchanging thoughts with all these wonderful people, glad things worked out for you, wish you the best.
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• Philippines
19 Aug 09
Nothing exciting happen to me again. I am just happy that I don't have problems with posting my discussion here in Mylot because yesterday it has a weird note showing that fails me to submit my response, now its okay, hopefully back to normal. I am happy for you and I admire you for being strong mother! Hope all mothers are like you! Godbless you BEST MOM!
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@lynnemg (4540)
• United States
19 Aug 09
You should be proud of yourself for finally standing your ground against him. I imagine that it feels great! When it comes to our kids, us Mommies can do almost anything!! My day was pretty normal for me. Nothing real exciting happened. I am blessed though because I have my kids, my husband, both of our families, and we are all pretty healthy. My husband and I both work, our kids have what they need, and we are doing okay. I do complain about stress at times, but really, I am in a pretty good situation in life and shouldn't complain too much.
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@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
19 Aug 09
I am so glad to hear that. It's nice to see him finally put in his place. Your right about the kids and routine. It may be tough for a while but it will get easier and you will see the difference.
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