Is it fine to propose someone you like?

India
August 21, 2009 8:20am CST
I like a girl. She is my good friend. I want to prpose her but somewhere I feel whether she would feel bad or start crying saying "She always considered my her good friend" . What's the best way to approach her? I don't want to loose her
2 responses
@vandana7 (66851)
• India
21 Aug 09
I really understand ur hesitation. :-) But then, a thing not dared is a thing not achieved. To give u some courage let me give u something to think about, imagine the guy whom u secretly envy approaching her, and she accepting him just because u were a few minutes late! Come on. U wont lose her. She would be flattered with the attention to say the least. I think u have been watching too many Hindi and regional movies. In our movies the heroine just slaps the guy or picks the sandals, or starts crying. That will not happen. There is no script like that in real life. Best of luck. U have all my prayers. :-)
• India
21 Aug 09
nice reply.. Hey.!! You said if a boy proposes a girl and she says yes.. I propose her the very next day, are there no chances for her to get committed with me. Why? You mean in that one day she will develop all the love he wants to get? :S :S :S Confused
@vandana7 (66851)
• India
21 Aug 09
I didnt say there is no chance she will not be committed. I said there is no chance she will slap u, or cry, or beat u with sandal. :-) Dont be so confused. I would really like u to get that girl. U have all my blessings. :-)
21 Aug 09
That is so sweet! I think if you are really serious about this girl you should just go for it. Although I havn't been in completely the same situation I have been in a similar one and I know how hard it is. But you just have to think that you will hopefully meet a really good friend like this again but maybe not someone that you want to propose to. I think if she is a good friend she will understand. And if she says yes then I wish you the best of luck!! Let us know how it goes!
• India
21 Aug 09
Liked your answer.. You are a gem from heart...