Let's Imagine A Situation ..
August 22, 2009 1:15am CST
Let's Imagine you Are In A Troubled Relation .. What Would You Do Personally To Make that Relation Come Back To Being Normal .. Every Wound Takes Time to Heal .. I Think The Best thing to Do IS Nothing .. What Would You Do .. Would You React Back .. Jump In Let's Have Your Thoughts ..
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24 Aug 09
sit down and talk about it. lay all the cards down. if you think you can start again without any regrets and will not open the past with the new start then go. but if you can not resolve the relationship with sitting down and talking about it then io dont think you need to make the relationship come back. i dont think that you need to start again. it is true that time heals all wound but some wound are too deep that it really takes a long time before it heals.
24 Aug 09
Thanks For your Views On This .. But I Think We Cannot Let Go Of A Relation So Easily .. You Have to Try to Make it Work Somehow .. A Known Enemy is Surely Better Than An Unknown Friend .. Everybody Seems Sweet In the Beginning .. If the Sweetness Is Good Even After Two Years .. It's Worth Getting On Wih That relation .. You Seem To Have Clear Cut Rules .. But Relationships Do Have It's Make Ups .. Try To Make Up .. It Will Be Worth The Effort .. Still If things Don't Work You Can Call it Off .. God Bless This World With Better People To Have Better Relations .. Thank You ..
24 Aug 09
i will be celebrating with my wife our 7th year anniversary and before we tied the knot we have a three year relationship us bf/gf. yes i can say that i have clear cut rules, and i hate dramas. we of course have our ups and downs but it is all talked about. sometimes it gets irritating when then relationship is hanging and you dont know if you need to move on or start again. for me couples need to talk about anything and everything to save a relationship but if it is no use then i guess you just have to move on.
24 Aug 09
Yes .. That's What Even I Am Saying .. Sit And Talk Try to figure Out What's Wrong .. See If Something Can Be Done To Make the Relation Work .. Still If You Can't Figure Out What To Do .. Then You Can Look For Outside Help .. Finally if Nothing Works You Are At Liberty To Call It Off ..
26 Aug 09
Unconditional Love Can Be Provided If you Are In Talking Terms .. But if The Relationship Has Gone Sore, Can You Provide Love To Some One You Don't Talk to .. I Just Can't Figure your Comments .. Any Way thanks For responding .. Have A Nice Day ..
22 Aug 09
it depends on what kind of trouble the relationship is having. If the trouble is that he cheated on me with someone else, I'd leave. If the trouble was that he abused me, I'd leave. If the trouble was that he was depressed, or had some problems from past relationships, I'd stay and work with him on the problems. If the problems were financial, I'd help him save some money. It realy depends on the problems.