What Is Your Opinion About Parents Who Banks With Their Children??

LolI was laughing while reading your response. I re-read that discussion that I make and I asked myself what I am really trying to the discussion. I think the title does not match did the content.So bad!I just don't know what comes on my mind?What I am trying to say here is that is your parents asking money from you when you already have the job?Or you just give them with your good heart?Oh my, the title is really far from the content.I'm so sorry. happy mylotting!

I'm not quite sure what the OP means either... at first, I was thinking financial banking, but the other text of the original post makes me think that they were meaning "bank" figuratively speaking. If we were to talk about financial banking.. some states in America require that a child under the age of 16 or 18 have their parents cosign onto the bank account. Some states, in fact, entitle the parents to take a percentage of their working child's paycheck. When I was forced to share a bank account with a parent, my mother signed. I had several hundred dollars saved. When I went to withdraw $50 to pay my internet bill one month (yes I paid my own!), I was told that there was only $11 in my account. My father, who was a drunk, had drank away all of the bill money so my mother confiscated all of mine to make up for it. Even though I wasn't 18, I already paid for my own food, and rent/room & board. Why should I have had to share the money I earned so that my mother could take it to make up for staying with a drunk, nonworking and nonsupportive husband. Eventually I just got a lockbox and hid it somewhere and eventually quit my job.

hi zoey7879; I get your point and I understand how you feel. I also experienced the same thing.My father is a heavy drinker.He always force my Mom to give him a money. It's good thing that you have already have your lock box. Let us be wise now.Your Mom should understand you. You are working very hard then it will just be given to a non-sense people.happy mylotting!!

I am so sorry to hear from you if your parents has passed away.It's good that even they are already gone, you still get to manage or to handle different problems.There are some people that cannot do something else without their parents. We should be very resourceful.We do not know when will our parents stay in this world.We should always make them happy.happy mylotting!!

Only my father has passed away, but my mom, now 86, is still alive, still very wise and deserving of her children's love, respect, and assistance. Karen

Wow!I hope you will be my mom!LolJust kidding, I understand my Mom if she is asking me to send money for her. She is the only one who is supporting my two brothers in our province, our father already left us. It is also her right to receive money from us. Without her,I will not be achieving the position that I am having now in our company. She deserves to be given an honor.happy mylotting!!

You are a food sample of a child. Our parents has exerted their efforts when we are still young so it is really our responsibility to assist them and give the things that will make them happy. We should not give them heartaches but we should give them pleasure in life.Without them, we are not here in this world. We should always thank them.