i'm totally heartbroken~~~~

China
August 27, 2009 5:44am CST
I'm a Chinese girl,a traditional,conservative girl. I have been heartbreaking for quite a long time and couldn't get recovery,which was because i confronted a love affair with a man who had built a family already and eventally we broke up.Turns head thinks, may be it's my fault,knowing all his situations and could not help being together with him.... fianlly,he chosen his family. it was a nightmare for me,and haven't wake up..
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@srganesh (6348)
• India
27 Aug 09
Traditional and a conservative girl.........how did you start loving an already married man?It is good that he chose his family.It is absolutely your fault if he had not hidden his family to you earlier.Now,divert your mind and soon you will get a man of right choice who will value your love much.Cheers!
• China
27 Aug 09
you will never understand,crying~~~~~~~~
• China
27 Aug 09
you never imagine who romantic he is , he picked me up at my work place everyday.with a branch of roses.we travelled toghther......
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@srganesh (6348)
• India
27 Aug 09
Don't cry little girl!All lovers consider their partners to be romantic and you are no exception.What is the use in chasing a married man?He has his own family and we have to consider them.Just divert your mind and time will heal all wounds.Cheer up!
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
It's alright Love can never be predictable even though the man you fell in love with is married already. you're not alone, but you must never allow yourself to fall for these sweetness or you'll fall again for the wrong guy. at least don't make the same mistake twice.
• China
28 Aug 09
i won't get myself hurt second time. I think time is painkiller that i need . thx 4 reply.
@gobama (55)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
hi.you how they make a metal sword ? they put it in a lot of fire that you can see it glowing red HOT , and they hammer it slowly to shape , put it in the fire again and hammer it again and when the sword is formed already they temper it in oil or water to make sturdier and stronger. well lets put it this way your the sword and he is the fire and because of it he had made you a stronger conservative girl.Smile!
• China
27 Aug 09
and now, i can hardly trust anyone else,including my best friends,they know nothing about this ,that's why i'm using this way to speak out what is overstocked in my heart.. it's really hard for me to forget it .should i keep in touch with him anymore or get rid of him.anyway, it's not easy for me.I stop working for some recovery .Should we youngs have to experience thses hardship to make we stronger? should people have to become indifference and callosity? I have no conffidence in dating or what u say making friends. time can pull down everything--passion,trust for each other,heart breakn,everything.romantic love in movies is too far to reach.beloved are most likely to betrey each other .......