working for a better relationship
August 27, 2009 7:05am CST
These past few days, me my husband were not fighting any more. I don't know why but the past few months it was hard for us to get along with each other, always fighting there, fighting here, fighting everywhere.And i was really sad all the time.After some time we decided to move near by my mother's house.I can't say it was magic but when the time we moved, fighting and fighting were lessen. We can get along with each other. may be we just realize that fight won't go any further for our relationship and it will only end up in sorrows and pain and it will not benefit good thing that will make us move on. now we can talk about anything under the sun. We are more open for both of us.sharing thoughts for the day that passed. And if argument comes along, we just give way to what we want to share.I think I'm learning the essence of a better relationship and also working for it.
• United States
28 Aug 09
It is wonderful to hear that you and your husband are finding a way to relate to each other and learn how to deal with things when an arguement begins. I mean no one can say that they never argue in a relationship because it happens, it's how you deal with it. Have you read "Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman? That might be a book that would help better your relationship as well. I know it helped make mine better.
27 Aug 09
It is wonderful that you and your husband are now having good communications. Communications is one of the ingredients in a good relationship if this is not practice then the relationship will go no way. Just continue to maintain this and all the best.