Whats the reason for men dumping women?

@krupesh (2608)
India
August 27, 2009 12:55pm CST
I would like to know some of the reasons why men dump women in relationships.I think women are the most cheated compared to men.It would be almost the fault of men rather than women. So what would be the reason?
8 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
27 Aug 09
If you are reasonable enough, you should know that it's not about the gender unless you want to talk statistics. Every couple's issue is personal, regardless of who dumped who, there's always a reason that involves the PERSON and then the COUPLE. There's a lot more that just MEN dumping women.
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
27 Aug 09
That's a very common mistake that many of us do, couldn't agree more. It involves a lot of psichologycal terms and "why's" and "where's", but that's not my specialty. Something that many times is missing and COULD help prevent dumping from either one: Communication.
@rashmie (948)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Aug 09
Hi Krupesh...nice to see you again after such a long period.. In my case, it is not the man but I dumped him. That was not a long affair, but all went to the hell when once I decided to have a look on his Orkut scrapbook. It took me whole night to go through about more than 5000 scraps and then it took just one call to say good bye forever. You should have got the reason. There is no doubt that woman are more dumped than man in personal relationship, however, I think you should not generalize it as there is also a sociocultural view related to this. In western countries and even in our country like in your city Bangalore, the situations have changed and the dumping rate of woman has increased if not leveled with men...
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
I depends, there are many occasions where women takes the Initiative of dumping men. In a show conducted by a TV channel It showed that the ratios are almost same. The major reason for this is that we are finding better partner than the existing ones or may be we are not compatible with the current partner & gets fed up & in the meantime gets better one. So thee is no other option than Dumping!!!!!
@tintukm (1084)
• India
27 Aug 09
Men do have this habit of dumping women more than women.In my view, the men always being rather much more selective than women always keep on building this bad habit,this can result in so many disasters for so many women.
• India
27 Aug 09
Hi Krupesh,It is not only men dumping women but it happens the other way also. I think one partner after living together for quite some time get used to each other and start taking the other for granted. At this situation any new acquaintance is a welcome change Hence they feel they are the victims as a result dump the partner. It is merely lack of mutual trust and love whcih keeps the couple together It is my idea Happy mylotting
@mdp50126 (10)
• United States
27 Aug 09
I dont think it is always the fault of the man. Women tend to think w/their hearts and may hold on to a bad relationship longer than they should b/c they love the man so they deal w/being unhappy and hope for it to get better but when that man gets unhappy he may love that woman but he aint going to stick around and wait for a miracle. Of course this is just an opinion,
@jshekhar (1563)
• India
27 Aug 09
Hello Krupesh, I don't think we can point out a few reasons why men dump women or the other way round. A few popular reasons might be: 1. Change in location-Maintaining long distance relationship is really tough. 2. Losing interest-Men might lose interest in women after a particular span of time. 3. Ignorance-As a relationship goes on, men start taking their partners for granted, or vice versa. Women like to be pampered all the time. this might also be one of the reasons.
@mdvarghese (1789)
• Bangalore, India
27 Aug 09
It will be happening the other way also. I dont think that much dumping is happening and as far as I learned the dumbing is happening more over equally from both sides. One reason what I see is the lack of mutual understanding and the tolerance. There is other reasons also. If they can not be satisfied physically by the current relation, they will search for a new one